Does this mean she is losing interest?

[exoduse22]

My girlfriend was a bit mean to me a while like making jokes that hit me a bit on the personal side and she was not as responsive as usual. Then later that day, she had a bad mood and because of that I tried to cheer her up. But then she only started to cheer up when I started to feel bad because of the things she is doing because she is upset like complaining a lot and was a little mean to me.

 

When we parted ways, she texted and told me to take care and she was sorry for being mean and being in a bad mood earlier the day.

 

She always complains a lot and make me feel stressed because of her bad vibes, and always gets better, when I myself get a bit bad vibed as well. I do not know if it is just a coincidence or maybe she just likes to make me feel hurt. It's been like three times already and we've been together for 143 days already. I try so hard to keep the relationship really going, but I don't know if she is giving her best at all.

 

She has had 3 boyfriends before me and she said I was different from all of them, and wanted to last long compared to her other 4 month relationships.

 

I know her well because we started as best friends, but no matter how much I want to trust her that she will love only me, I can't get the possibility of her cheating on me out of my head, and after what she did today, it made me think that it could be because she is losing interest in me.

 

Or is there other reasons why she does is acting like this?

Edited June 5, 2013 by exoduse22

[will1988]

143 days? How many hours? How many minutes? How many seconds, have y'all been dating?

 

Was/is your GF on the rag when she is acting this way? My fiance' is the nicest person in the world, but sometimes when she is on the rag she becomes a raging biotch. If that is the case then you can tell her to calm down and control her bad behavior, do this after she is off the rag. Some women when they are PMSing do not listen to reason or normal logic.

 

Now, if the aforementioned scenerio is not the case for your situation, then your GF may in fact be losing interest. Or playing head games, especially since she seems to enjoy you getting your feeling hurt.

 

I would talk to her about these feelings and issues more in depth. Tell her your side of the story. Also try to reason with her. What I do is I ask my Fiance' how she would feel if I said/did what she said/did to her? And I try to reverse the rolls. Sometimes this actually works, or times I just get "Well... but that's different!"

 

You need to put your foot down before you end up being her emotional punching bag. My fiance tried pulling those stunts at the begining of the relationship, I loved her and stuck with her, but I drew a line in the sand... and for the most part we've not had a major argument in over a year. So you need to draw your line in the sand, or grow thick skin, or move on.