freetolove Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 The guy I've been chasing after for 3 years, we finally tried sleeping together. I was a bit shocked to find out his package (penis) was small, less then 3 inches but either way I still like him. After our bad one time sexual encounter, he just started avoiding me. (I was a bit hurt by this) My thoughts on why sex was bad was because I liked it rough and the positions required at least some length (in retrospect). I guess I didn't realize he couldn't do certain positions at the time. He recently have been interacting with me more. I still like him and would like to hang out and sleep with him again. Not sure what to do. Pls no penis jokes, he's more then just that.
aussie sam Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I would imagine that he is embarrassed by not being able to please you and is scared of you rejecting him. My advice would be to be flirty with him again and show him that you are still interested in him. This will give him more confidence to try sex with you again. If you do have sex again, it might be best if you take more control and position yourself in a way that works better for you both. Perhaps you on top? After a while when you are both more comfortable I'm sure you'll figure out a good ways to please each other. 1
Roadkill007 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I hear doggy's the best position for this type of situation. also, try goofy build-up to the sex? then he might not think about "his problem" so much, which is probably the real contributor to bad sex... over self-consciousness means you can't focus on your partner and your own reactions to your partner. Good luck, from a guy who knows your guy's pain all too well.
TheGuard13 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 He could always wear one of those extension things...
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 You had to CHASE him for THREE YEARS? And after you bone, he's now avoiding you? I wouldn't have had sex with a man I had to chase for three years to get it. Then again, I wouldn't chase a man for 3 years. Not even 3 months, or 3 weeks. I don't think it should be any big surprise; he wasn't into you for 3 years, why would sex change that? 1
Phantom888 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I think the mechanics of sexual positions play a big part. It's hard for shorter penis to enter a woman who is a bit "large" also. I am average length (but large girth), and I find it hard to do doggy with a woman who has a really HUGE butt, but I like trying different positions so I can get really deep inside. A really important psychological factor is for the woman to boost the man's ego. You need to tell him his penis feels really good. Is he good at oral sex? Tell him how great he is. Once a man is confident, he will be an animal in bed. I have heard from many women that a LONG penis doesn't feel great. You two have to exploit his strengths in bed, and go along with that. Does his penis taste good to you? There are millions of ways to enjoy sex, and most of it is psychological.
musemaj11 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I cant imagine a hard penis shorter than 3-inches ,,,
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