destroyed4sho Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Do you think there is any truth to the fact that he is indeed "in love" with her? He was talking about hopefully having her move here. "In Love" with her....like he was "in love" with you? Yes. He is not capable of loving anyone...he is Narcissistic Piggie. He is talking crap to make you feel worse and it is working....he WANTS you to remember him, to desire him, he gets off on that.....and you are falling for everything he feeds you. He is making "last curtain calls" and you are sitting there applauding each time he comes out. Have you done any research on narcissists? Time to Leave the room please!!....Go NC..this INSANITY will never end for you..its torturous, ive been there, and it is the most painful thing I have ever been through. I still have some of the desperate feelings and meltdowns you do, but they have subsided tremendously after months of NC. The torture I once felt after feeling low and rejected after contact is gone and I feel sorry for the old me that had to go through that. You are going to have to start all over again with NC Day #1 until you get it right. You know this, you have been on here for a while. The 3rd and 4th month is the worst. It is Over with this man, he has cut you too deep. Your therapists are finding this a challenge because You are addicted to him because you have attachment issues coming from mommy and daddy that run deep. You think he is a nice guy because he once idealized you and you still refer back to the time when he treated you well. He is not that person and never was. I feel you and I am going through the same feelings and emotions. I am still shocked sometimes and do have meltdowns but they are occurring farther apart.
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 "The 3rd and 4th month is the worst. Geeeesh. No wonder I have been feeling so crappy lately. I am right in the middle of it. C'mon turning point 1
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