TaylorHampton Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Me and this guy became friends over a year ago. We would just hang out, and talk for hours. After a while we began having sex, and I trusted him so much I gave up my virginity to him. At the time both of us were single, but after a few months he began to fall back from me and we'd only talk every so often. Now he's getting married to his daughter's mother, but he still calls me sometimes. I miss him so much that i respond to all of his text and calls. He's denying the fact that he's engaged as well. I love him so much, but I don't to cause any trouble with him and his fiancé. Can we still be friends? Should I cut all ties with him? I'm miserable without him because he was my bestfriend, now I have no one I fell like he is tourtuing me by entering in and out of my life.
flitzanu Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Me and this guy became friends over a year ago. We would just hang out, and talk for hours. After a while we began having sex, and I trusted him so much I gave up my virginity to him. At the time both of us were single, but after a few months he began to fall back from me and we'd only talk every so often. Now he's getting married to his daughter's mother, but he still calls me sometimes. I miss him so much that i respond to all of his text and calls. He's denying the fact that he's engaged as well. I love him so much, but I don't to cause any trouble with him and his fiancé. Can we still be friends? Should I cut all ties with him? I'm miserable without him because he was my bestfriend, now I have no one I fell like he is tourtuing me by entering in and out of my life. sounds like he was banging you the whole time he was seeing his baby momma. so no, i don't think you should try to be "friends" with him, because you obviously want more than friendship from him. plus i'm sure his wife wouldn't be too happy about him hanging out with you knowing your past.
Author TaylorHampton Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Thanks! It's nice to get reassurance from strangers. Going through a breakup is a harsh reality, but I'll make it 1
aisuru Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 You deserve better. You will be happy again when you're ready to be happy again. What are you doing actively to be happy again?
Author TaylorHampton Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 That's a good question. I haven't been doing much to make myself happier. I did join a gym recently, and working out does ease my mind a little. I've also been introduced to two new guys but it seems like all I do is compare them to him. I'm actually interested in one of them, but I'm not trying to be led on and dropped again
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