dan123456 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 a little back i went on vacation and meet this girl who is 7 years older than me, we got off at a really good start connected in my opinion. btw we also talked at the airport before we got boarded anyways she ended up going to the same resort as me. we ended up having sex a couple of times after we hung out together in the resort. She lives really close by me back at home about 20 minute drive. She said we should go out and stuff when we come back so i though shes a awesome girl so why not. Before leaving back home she acted a little weird to me but didn't over think it but now she doesn't really reply to my msgs so i called her today, she picked up saying call back in 30 "im driving" i called back later with no answer and she hasn't called back either. She seemed really into before
drr6 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Seems like you have to drop it. If you send a text with specific suggestion for meeting up (do we use the 'date' word anymore?) and she doesn't reply, then it's hasta la vista. Dont bother discussing the weather, your new smartphone, or other nonsense. As to why..... Irrelevant and speculative, really. But my money is on this: Many people, more so women than men, act sexually wild on vacation in ways that they would never do back home. The fact that you live close to each suggests she doesn't want your fling to become public knowledge. Enjoy the fact that you were a vacation ****buddy and leave it at that.
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 well i guess i texted her about it and no reply, though she wanted to since she suggested we meet again before she caught a ride at the airport, thanks anyways though
aloneinaz Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Maybe she's married or is in a relationship already? Many married women do stupid things when out of town, away from hubby. Either way, move on. You tried to see her and she wasn't interested. Enjoy the memory of the vacation and find someone else.
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 no she wasnt married or in a relationship i checked and asked her friend who she was with shes 24 so dont think she married or anything. i dont know she really seemed into me
gaius Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So you're 17? Not many 24 year olds would feel comfortable admitting to dating a 17 year old. Maybe in a few years. Or next time you run into her out of town.
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 i may off said im 19 turning 20 this year, i dont look or act my age. well who knows i might run into her im just a little upset that she doesnt even bother replying, id rather her say no that wonder if she got my msg and such
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Sorry it was a disappointing end. FWIW, ignoring you is a reply. It means not interested (and I don't want to talk to you or discuss why). On the bright side, you had a fun vacation!
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 yeah i guess it is, still id rather a simply no sorry or something like that.
todreaminblue Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 i may off said im 19 turning 20 this year, i dont look or act my age. well who knows i might run into her im just a little upset that she doesnt even bother replying, id rather her say no that wonder if she got my msg and such so you lied about your age...she have found out how old you are...let it go....she is not interested for whatever reason and you might be mature for your age, but if you were actually older you would know....this thing you had with her on vacation.....i am sorry to say is over....move on.........its all you can do...best wishes.............deb
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 she never found out about that, i know for a fact we have no mutual friends or anything. well i guess your right sadly thanks
clia Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 i may off said im 19 turning 20 this year, i dont look or act my age. well who knows i might run into her im just a little upset that she doesnt even bother replying, id rather her say no that wonder if she got my msg and such Congratulations, depending on where you live you may have caused her to commit a felony with your lie. That is a total douchebag thing to do. She could get in major trouble. Did you tell her your real name? If so, I bet she used the Internet and found out how old you really are.
Author dan123456 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 yeah i told her my real name, we one another on facebook i know for a fact she doesnt know my real age i have nothing on facebook listed or anywhere else on the internet
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