tiki Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 There's something about someone that's completely committed and loyal to their partner that's a total turn-on for me. Like Jessica Simpson, look at how loyal she is to her husband. I love that. I want that! I have that! The ability to be faithful is a massive turn-on. I wish it'd be more of a fad to be faithful. I know it's not always the best of a situation that you're stuck with...and I've done my share of cheating. Been there, done that, won't do it again. But loyalty just flat out rocks. I promote it. I love it. I am a better lover because I am faithful to my man. I'm proud to say I'm faithful to my commitment.
kellydontwanttasleep Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 i'm happy for you you found your space. but remember Newlyweds is just a TV show. i deal with a lot of celebs everyday at my work and since i work mostly the night shift i talk to alot of these celebs when they're all stupid and drunk and running up crazy credit card bills.
PUHLEEEZE..... Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 tikibrandy: I'm with you, girl! I'm so in love with my guy, I can't even imagine NOT being faithful to him. And the best part is that he feels the same way. I know life isn't perfect, and that no one is immune to trouble... but it's so good to be with someone who at least has the same values to start with (took me long time to find him)!. I let him know DAILY how much it means to me!
faux Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 One can never trust another person. Trust and faith may often blind.
EC Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 Wow what a way to bust Tiki's bubble....Tiki I'm faithful all the way and I think its a turn on too... When I worked at a restaurant I met guys everyday. I was single so I would flirt my ass off....Nothing turned me on more than when I would hit on a guy and he would say "I'm sorry I'm in a relationship I'm not looking for anything right now." Its like WHAT..omg your even better now lol I'm faithful now but I have cheated but i am a better person now and besides now I'm in love so it's different... It should be the new fad lol But then you see reality and I have to agree with Faux..Trust and faith MAY sometimes be blind...
dyermaker Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by faux One can never trust another person. Trust and faith may often blind. http://publish.uwo.ca/~dpalmier/philosophy/DescNotes1.htm Trust isn't a gaurantee of success, it's a certainty in another person. You can be blind, and still be certain. I'm certain that God exists. It's about an absence of doubt, not a guarantee of correctness. Plenty of Americans are certain that Osama bin Laden is in Iraq.
UCFKevin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 I have trust issues but I think there is a girl out there who I could fully trust 100% all the way completely and other redundant adjectives.
dyermaker Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 You *don't* look like Ben Affleck anymore. Brendan Fraser?
UCFKevin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 That's quite a step down, you bastard. Hell! You! etc.!
dyermaker Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Your sycophants will defend you soon, I'm just telling it like it is.
Merin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin We shall see, my mortal enemy. We shall see. You're still a doll Kevin.
dyermaker Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin my mortal enemy. I could do worse.
Mr Spock Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 What, someone is going to get on here and say "No!!! You're WRONG!! Loyalty SUCKS" ?
UCFKevin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 I could do worse. But you'll never do better. Mmm.
Mr Spock Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 I just want to know why the grin on your face is so big. I'd describe that as a "Sh*t eating" grin.
dyermaker Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by Mr Spock What, someone is going to get on here and say "No!!! You're WRONG!! Loyalty SUCKS" ? I was thinking the same thing.
Barby Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin That's quite a step down, you bastard. Hell! You! etc.! You're kidding right?? Brendan Fraser is a HELL of a lot hotter than Ben who is NOT very attractive at all and who's very "prissy" IMHO So I'd say you're stepping up, and yes loyality rocks and is all good and dandy as long as both people are participating...what good is one sided loyality...too bad more people didn't live faithfully.
Merin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by Barby You're kidding right?? Brendan Fraser is a HELL of a lot hotter than Ben who is NOT very attractive at all and who's very "prissy" IMHO So I'd say you're stepping up, and yes loyality rocks and is all good and dandy as long as both people are participating...what good is one sided loyality...too bad more people didn't live faithfully. LOL Good point Barby.. loyalty is awesome IF both are loyal. So I guess there are some people that really would say "Hell no loyalty doesn't rock!" Like uh... the jackasses who don't have it in them to be loyal OR faithful. Damn, I love my Lab!
UCFKevin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 That's how I smile. You'd rather half a smirk, Mr. Spock?
Mr Spock Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Half a smirk? Poking fun at bells palsy? No, I was just curious as to what was making you happy.....you don't look like brendan fraser. He's got bigger lips.
UCFKevin Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Half a smirk? Poking fun at bells palsy? Excuse me? How the hell did you put those two things together? I'm honestly getting a little tired of you busting my balls all the time, it's getting pretty old.
Mr Spock Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin Excuse me? How the hell did you put those two things together? I'm honestly getting a little tired of you busting my balls all the time, it's getting pretty old. Ooops. I'll put the little smiling faces next to my posts next time......that was meant to be light hearted and flippant. But really. I don't go anywhere near your balls dude. I don't know why you think I'm picking on you. Perhaps you've never forgiven me for comparing you to vince vaughn, whom I actually like.
CurlyIam Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Ok, let's see: kevin was once compared to ben affeck, now he's more of a Fraser guy. hum. So he hates it. Spock got compared to a vince vaughn once, remembers it and... also she she likes vaughn, she hates it the comparison. Dyer on the other hand has an avatar that makes me feel ashamed. You should be the "Curly" creature on the Shack, boy!
CurlyIam Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Loyality is a strange concept. It' a matter of guilt, teritoriality, instinct, attraction and respect. A matter closely linked to conscience. In my case, anyway. I have cheated (kissed other men) when I was furious, mad, hurt, disapointed, out of a feeling of revenge. I haven't cheated because I could not bare the guilt, the thought I was betraying the person I loved. I think the more one feels territorial about the other person, the less likely that perso is to cheat. IT's the instinct, the attraction. Once I get that from my man, the rest of the crowd seems to fade. Oh, I do flirt for my own amusement, but I have the limits very clear in my head. And I know how not to send mixed messages. I guess to me loyality is not a concept, something that I set out to do. It just is or isn't. I feel loyal or I don't. I mean should the attraction be weaker, also in a relationship, temptation arises. And sometimes it is strong. Isn't the person that's tempted just as guitly for feeling tempted, regardless of giving in to it or not? As long as I'm honest to myself, I are say nothing else matters.
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