ilovelove19 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 hey guys , i was seeing this guy for about 9 month. Things started out very good between us . we took the time to hang out, get to know each other and really become friends before we started dating and became intimate (3 month to be exact) i had a very painful break up before i met him and i really needed the time to heal. During all this time , we never argued or had any problems, spending a lot of time together and really enjoying ourselves.it seemed like things where just too good to be true. About 7 month into the relationship, his dad had a heartattack . I felt really sad when he told me . i offered my support and wanted to help as much as i could. during this time We would just text or briefly talk on the phone . he was spending a lot of time with his siblings and family. The dads condition was very bad , he was in an artificial coma and it didnt improve. we didnt see each other for 3 weeks ( i also went out of town for the holidays ) after 3 weeks his dead was taken out of the coma and things started to look up. we started spending time together again. A few weeks later , there were complications and the doctors decided to the father back into an artificial coma. From that moment on, my BF totally shut down again. He would text me but didnt ask to see me . I really tried to be understanding but it was very hard. he was complaining about how depressed he is all the time. After about 2 weeks he decided to meet again but ended up canceling last minute, one day caus he was sick and the other day cause he had an appointment to talk to his fathers doc. he asked to meet a 3rd time and thats when i said yes but only if he really shows up. He totally shut down again and didit reply. a few days later he called me we talked and decided to meet and talk things out. We met and everything was great , his dad was still in a bad condition , but he was happy to see me and truly apologized for his behaviour. he said that he was going thru a hard time and didnt want anyone around him. he said that he wanted to be with me and things would change. We spend a lot of time together , everything was good until a week later. He meet his friend on the weekend and was supposed to meet me monday evening .He texted me around 3 and said he was on his way to thee hospital to see his dad and after his dads visit he would call me to meet up. I replied and said take care of your dad first caus thats the most important thing and let me know when u are ready. He never called .When i tried to call him, his phone was off. the next day, i was so mad that i drove to his place to see if he was there but he wasn't. the next day, he texted me and said that his dad was doing really bad and the doctors didnt think his dad would make he spent the night at the hospital When i read the text , i didnt know what to believe , i was very hurt. I havent replied or called untill today , its almost 3 weeks ago . i m still very hurt and dont know what to do. he still has a lot of stuff at my place and the keys to my house. i feel so down right now ... dont know what to believe anymore ....
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