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I had the hardest time getting a hold of him on the phone yesterday, calling---him not being there--leaving messages with his roomate to call me back-which he did @ 9:30 at night. It reminded me a lot of when we were dating and I couldnt get a hold of him, ever. I was having a good morning, so I called him to return the message he left, and told him to wear a sweater cuz it was cold out. We chatted a bit, we even set up a time to meet at 4-ish today. Then I saw him today as I came around the corner with my coffee in hand. It literally shook me, BOOM and then he went on to say the girl he's dating that looks just like me is just in the bathroom 2 feet away BOOM. Wow, what a great opportunity to meet my new replacement. I said ok, dropped my stuff, and we waited for her to come out of the bathroom, I had to see this for myself I said.

 

So we waited, him trying to appear non-chalant, and I'm seething, trying not to say something spiteful to him now, and when she did in fact come out. She came out, and we met-she playfully punched him, and I never took my eyes off his face...and he couldnt look me in the eye.

 

So I came to the realization: she can have him, because he'll never be able to look me in the eye, ever. He can't have his cake and eat it too, I've got more respect for myself than that. He failed to tell me that they have a class together, a class that we've talked about numerous times. And if he thinks I'm going to take part in some childish fight for his affections, because he doesnt have any drama in his life...well he's gonna have to look for another way to amuse himself.

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Good for you hon--keep ur head up :cool: But letme get this straight--he arranged to see you but brought his new girlfriend too??? Youre right, this dude's really looking for an ego snack--even at the expense of your feelings. The situation may have lifted his spirits, but youre in charge of making sure its the last boost he'll ever get at your expense.

 

Your attitude is great but youre gonna have to fight with yourself every day to keep it up. Even the strong have their weak moments so continue to let it out here, or in a journal or to your pillow...just as long as its not to him.

 

Good Luck sweetie!! :)

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not sure why you agreed to meet him? was it that you thought he is trying to get back?

and that she's ok with that too--all very strange unless you were still good friends which is never recommended after a major breakup!

don't give him satisfaction of him thinking he has a girlfriend and a great ex as a friend. ...my ex had insisted that we be friends so that he could have his cake and eat it too--the best of both worlds (he had cheated) which i would not do--and the girl loved that of course but i didn;t care about annoying her, it was with him that was the problem.

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