lailax3 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 So, as the title states, I broke No Contact. I messaged him on whatsapp asking why he had unblocked me after not bothering to respond to my email and text, two weeks ago. He said he had deleted my number but wasn't sure how I was unblocked. He then said I was deluded for copying his status. No idea what status he was talking about, but to have seen my status it means he never did in fact delete me. I said I wasn't going to argue over something reckless and he blocked me. A hour later I called him. He cut me off. I called again. He cut me off. I sent a text. In it I stated his unresponsive behaviour since breaking up with me indirectly was cruel and disrespectful. I mentioned reaching out to him several times and being ignored. I mentioned the calls and being cut off. I said I was never in my life going to contact him again. And that he had won the game he was playing with me. With that, I blocked him on whatsapp, I deleted his number. He called me a hour ago. My phone seemed to ring for a long while, I didn't answer. I then deleted the call log. I know initiating contact with him may seem like a stupid idea to many. Even proceeding to call him after that may seem ridiculous and pathetic. But my actions and his actions have now confirmed to me 100% he doesn't care for me and he never will. I had a little cry after he called me. But it is what it is. Life will go on.
CelticGibson Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 At least you know the truth now, even though it was painful. Please try keep to No Contact from now on. It will get better in time.
Author lailax3 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 At least you know the truth now, even though it was painful. Please try keep to No Contact from now on. It will get better in time. Guess it was the 'closure' I 'needed'. I won't be contacting him, there's no point.
Giha Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Guess it was the 'closure' I 'needed'. I won't be contacting him, there's no point. Sometimes it takes a hard lesson to truly learn that. I'm sorry you had to go through that but at least now you can move on without wondering.
Author lailax3 Posted June 8, 2013 Author Posted June 8, 2013 I've been finding it difficult today. I know he's not interested in me, yet I'm still finding it difficult to accept, 3 weeks on. I've not felt this way before, it's not my first breakup. I usually move on with so much dignity and no bitterness. I hate feeling this way. Especially since it's so one sided. My life is proceeding as normal, my days are full. But every few hours I get this ache. Sigh.
aloneinaz Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 I've been finding it difficult today. I know he's not interested in me, yet I'm still finding it difficult to accept, 3 weeks on. I've not felt this way before, it's not my first breakup. I usually move on with so much dignity and no bitterness. I hate feeling this way. Especially since it's so one sided. My life is proceeding as normal, my days are full. But every few hours I get this ache. Sigh. There was some value to breaking NC. You got a true taste of the guy and now, how could you ever contact him again? There's nothing to say. Put him on ignore for you healing and move on. Maybe a couple of causal dates w/be a good distraction as well.
Author lailax3 Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 I went on a casual date yesterday. I enjoyed myself. However today I've felt kinda down. I wondered what would have happened if I had answered the phone, 10 days ago. Maybe he wanted to work things out, and I ruined the chance of any reconciliation.
simplyamazing Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I went on a casual date yesterday. I enjoyed myself. However today I've felt kinda down. I wondered what would have happened if I had answered the phone, 10 days ago. Maybe he wanted to work things out, and I ruined the chance of any reconciliation. If that were the case, he would have called again. He would have found another way to contact you if that didn't work.
Chi townD Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Ummmm......he called you deluded...which, you can also take it as he's calling you insane. I really doubt he was calling you up to "work things out" To me, it sounds like he wanted to get the last word in. He sounds like the type. Time to move on and work on you. Start making positive changes in your life. 1
SimonSerenade Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Sounds like my ex when I contacted her last week, was desperate, crying and everything, I had to tell her something important and she didn't want to hear it, just treated me like garbage and kept having a go at me because i woke her up, I kept telling her before we broke up I couldnt handle how she was being because I knew there was a chance there was something wrong with my heart, that night I tried to tell her what the problem was after i found out that day and begged her to be there for me through it all, she didn't care and honestly in my mind, she never did and she never loved me either, if she did she wouldn't treat me like that, I haven't spoken to her since and unless she hasan apology for me then I won't speak to her again, I should hate her but I don't, I'm a bigger person than that and I know in that situation I wouldn't budge an inch from someone's side let alone treat anyone like that, she's a horrible person just like your ex boyfriend, times like that should give you the strength never to contact them again, since then I've been tempted to call her but I really don't feel like being talked to like that and neither should you, their scum, nothing more and a lot less, just scum.
SweetiePie12 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I would never contact my ex with a hostile, confrontational attiitude. He does not play that.
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