No Limit Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I miss my cat. If I wouldn't have experienced it I wouldn't have believed in such a strong connection being possible between a human and an animal, but this was well beyond commands or voice tones. It was more like telepathy. I also miss my ex-best friend. After her betrayal she tried reaching out for me for 6 months, but I never reacted to any calls. The one time I did (accidentally, she blocked her own number so I couldn't see who was calling and she'd stopped weeks prior to that so I didn't expect it to be her) it was all smalltalk with me "mhmm"ing every so often as answer. But the more I think of it the more I realize it's not her I miss, but the old her. But she's dead, didn't even get a gravestone and stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Livinginthepast Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I miss someone so much... someone I know I will never get to kiss... or hug... or feel his touch.... who do you miss? I miss my husband .. I miss his company, his attentive nature towards my well-being, I miss his touch and his silliness. We've been separated for the last 1month and 2weeks. Currently, practicing NC for the 3rd week now. Heard from mutual friend that he commented on how "this has been the longest (Insert my name here) has been without contacting me". Not sure if he will divorce me or if he'll reflect and want to make it work. He hasn't mentioned the D word yet.. Link to post Share on other sites
roger136913 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 My Mother R.I.P. 2002 I could really just sit and listen to her now. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smileforelena Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 i miss having a clear mind free from memories, woulda coulda shouldas and wondering about whys...i miss a peaceful quiet minded sundays 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DontBreakEven Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I miss the girl I originally met. I miss how she could stay on the phone for hours, have something she had to do, hang up, call back 5 minutes later and apologize that we got "cut off". I miss how she looked at me, and spoke to me. She changed out of nowhere about 5 months into the relationship, but by that time I was hooked. That girl would come back every now and then, but the periods of her going away would last longer and longer. It's a shame, really. I miss that beautiful girl. Link to post Share on other sites
freebird31 Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 i do miss him from time to time. But if i had the chance to change what happened? To somehow change is feelings over breaking up with me? No, i wouldnt. This happened for a reason and i strongly believe that. Either it wasnt the right time, or it wasnt the right man. God chose a different path for me, and damn right i trust that its a better path. Link to post Share on other sites
Erlaad Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Interesting question. Do I miss her / them? I have ups and dows. I don't miss her, overall. I might miss her family from time to time. But it's fleeting... It's going away. Slowly. I'm eating away those feelings and using the nourishment to fortify myself. The only person I really miss is myself. The boy that never was and the adult that I haven't met yet. But I'll meet him again - soon. - Erl Link to post Share on other sites
Itspointless Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 I miss the girl I originally met. [...] I miss how she looked at me, and spoke to me. [...] She changed out of nowhere about 5 months into the relationship, but by that time I was hooked. That girl would come back every now and then ... I miss certain people in my life, not only her. But yeah I recognize this, only in my case I never found her again. I always thought that when having a hard time in life it helps people to have someone who cares about them. I miss the happy me, i am slowly getting it back tho. Definitely this. Link to post Share on other sites
STM206 Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 I miss the first person I ever fell in love with, and so far has been the last. I guess the first cut is always the deepest. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Itspointless Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 I miss the first person I ever fell in love with, and so far has been the last. I guess the first cut is always the deepest. Does breaking a bone hurt less the second time, because you know what is coming? Perhaps you are one of those lucky people? I really hope that is true for you. Link to post Share on other sites
STM206 Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Does breaking a bone hurt less the second time, because you know what is coming? Perhaps you are one of those lucky people? I really hope that is true for you. I hope it rings true for all of us. I believe in finding a lifelong partner because I've seen proof of it in my parents, they've been married for 30 years. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author missunshine Posted April 28, 2014 Author Share Posted April 28, 2014 don't mention the ''D'' word if he hasn't. I always make a similar mistake about other things. If I fight with my loved one, I'd sat goodbye, and stuff, or delete him, or block him... which is a silly thing to do, cause in the end, I know I will pick up the phone when he calls, eventually, so what have I done? saying goodbye for so many times, and now he doesn't take me seriously at all when I say such things )) I hope everything works out with your husband. I hope it's not a serious thing you got going on. And well, I would say, contact him, he is obviously waiting for you to write him. Don't waste time, time is precious. Do it now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author missunshine Posted April 28, 2014 Author Share Posted April 28, 2014 (edited) I miss my husband .. I miss his company, his attentive nature towards my well-being, I miss his touch and his silliness. We've been separated for the last 1month and 2weeks. Currently, practicing NC for the 3rd week now. Heard from mutual friend that he commented on how "this has been the longest (Insert my name here) has been without contacting me". Not sure if he will divorce me or if he'll reflect and want to make it work. He hasn't mentioned the D word yet.. don't mention the ''D'' word if he hasn't. I always make a similar mistake about other things. If I fight with my loved one, I'd say goodbye, and stuff, or delete him, or block him... which is a silly thing to do, cause in the end, I know I will pick up the phone when he calls, eventually, so what have I done? saying goodbye for so many times, and now he doesn't take me seriously at all when I say such things )) I hope everything works out with your husband. I hope it's not a serious thing you got going on. And well, I would say, contact him, he is obviously waiting for you to call him. Don't waste time, time is precious. Do it now. Edited April 28, 2014 by missunshine Link to post Share on other sites
jt27 Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 I miss the way she would look up at me uprovoked and just say "I love you". I miss her rubbing my leg while driving. I miss throwing a blanket on her when she falls asleep on the couch. I miss cooking for her. I miss her smile and the way I felt everytime I saw it...thinking everything will be alright everytime I saw her sparkle. I miss her goofy dances for no apparent reason. I miss the way she played with my dog. I miss making plans with her about our future. Sharing new experiences with her. Her scent, her touch, her infectious laugh, her brightness. The feeling I got that whenever she was with me...that peace of mind. I miss saying good morning and good night to her. Her random hugs. Her grabbing ahold of my arm and kissing it just because I am there. I miss being there for her when she needs me. I miss telling her everything is gonna be ok. I miss being desired by her. I miss falling asleep knowing I have the greatest girl in the world. I miss waking up knowing I have the greatest girl in the world. I miss rubbing her collar bone and kissing her neck. I miss sharing my life with her. I miss how good of a person I was to her. I miss missing her only to see again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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