Phantom888 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 I feel like such a chick writing this, but for some reason this role reversal thing has happened to me more frequently than all the dudes I know. There was a time after my divorce when I was lonely and wanted companionship. I met a series of nice ladies, all of whom were attractive educated professionals in their late 30s / early 40s. All of them wanted to sleep with me early on, and I allowed them. They would call me in the afternoon to set up a meet during that evening, and none of them wanted conversation or even dinner. It was just sex. There were times when I slept with 3 different women during the same week, and I was exhausted. I felt crappy because none of them wanted to date me. They didn't want any emotional relationship. It was really weird because I'm not like a model-type stud who attracts women. I'm a business executive, and I can afford nice dinners. But none of these women wanted anything from me except sex. This almost feels like a movie where god changes your role so you can feel what it's like to be the "victim". I never used women for sex, but for some reason, I felt the universe was trying to teach me a lesson. The reason why I am a bit worried is because I had an amazing 2nd date with the most amazing woman i have ever met. We had sex for hours, and now her texts are more "sexual" than before. I don't want this relationship to be sex-only. As stated in another post, I really think that I'm in love with her. Don't want anything to go wrong with this connection.
drr6 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 (edited) Congratulations on having been a desirable ****buddy. For the new gal, why don't you tell her what you are looking for? You should be able to express yourself fine as an accomplished adult, right? PS The idea that all women want relationships and not just sex is a silly trope. Edited June 4, 2013 by drr6
shexy Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I really really really wish I had it in me to be one of those women that just wants sex and not the relationship. It's been awhile and I could REALLY enjoy some good sex right about now. However, I want the relationship too. 1
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