confusion with a man and he is a Sagittarius!

[ginasheen]

I like this guy and hit it off the first date. It was so easy to talk to him right off the bat. First he travels alot and is a busy man. which is good I am 46 and have my own life. Well things progressed and after the 4th date he said he really really likes me and didn't want to see anyone else.He travels during the week we text every now and then. He said this is the busy time of the year for him or May is busy for him. Plus he has a family a few hours away. Recently he had a golf trip planned with a bunch of buddies for a week.. I thought to myself just let it go and I wasnt planning to hear form him. Well I did get a text he was thinking about me. Great!. well he gets back we meet for dinner and later discuss going away together for Las Vegas for a few days since we both like to gamble. He loves to travel and so do I. We have many things in common and can talk all hours of the night. Most of the time we can stare at each other without saying a word and just smile. Ok here is this the stinger.

 

WE have been busy past two weeks because his daughter was up staying with him, working and my good friend was here from Germany staying with me. We touched base here and there. Called said he missed me. Anyway I let him chase me but, sometimes I feel he wants me to make some decisions on things. Anyway Saturday last week rolled around and I work on weekends. He text ,I was thinking about you and are you off Sunday?. I said I work and Off MOn Tues. He asked if we can meet Sunday night for dinner? I said Perfect. Well Sunday comes around it has been two weeks since we have seen each other. at 4:00 he text I am at the golf tournament won's be back until late. Sorry last minute invite. I was crushed. I felt I was not valued. I wrote him back next day. Hope it was fun and had dinner with a friend. emotionally I pulled back but after two days he can feel it. He text me Where did you disappear too. Hope you are ok. I said I haven't disappeared...I have been busy at work. He said thought so me too. We need to get together soon. I said Perfect. Now never heard a peep from him since. What the hell is going on?

 

Thanks for reading this long story

[Treasa]

From a female Sagittarius, forget about him for now, and if he contacts you again, tell him he's used up his number of bail-outs (1), and if he breaks off another one last minute, you won't be seeing him again.

[clia]

What golf tournament was it? One of the big PGA ones? Because I might be willing to let that slide if he truly did get a last minute invite. Those tickets aren't easy to get.

 

I don't know what time zone you are in, but here it's still only mid-day on Tuesday, and from what I'm reading in your post you heard from him last on Monday. I really don't think you have anything to freak out about quite yet -- he told you yesterday that he was busy at work.

[ginasheen]

This was a week ago. Then text me where did I disappear to 3 days later. Then said we need to get together soon. I said perfect. Now it's a week later no word from him

[FitChick]

This was a week ago. Then text me where did I disappear to 3 days later. Then said we need to get together soon. I said perfect. Now it's a week later no word from him

 

Your mistake was not saying, "I am free on (day). Where should I meet you and at what time?" You need to pin him down. If he is vague, he isn't interested.

Edited June 4, 2013 by FitChick

[umirano]

What does him "being" a sagittarius have to do with anything? Look at his actions not at weird esoteric clutter. He blows hot and cold, that's what's matters here. Let him come back. If he doesn't you have your answer. If he does you can subtly or not so subtly let him know you don't appreciate his flakiness. That's what I would do.

[ginasheen]

Thanks everyone. Things to think about.