Arizona 10 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Ok this a long story.. Ok i met him when i was 16 on november at a park by december we were dating i was soo happy and he was too at least i thought he was i was in high school he was a drop out he was 18 at first he was afraid cause he thought some how he would go to jail.. Time kept passing and then hes dad lost his job he said he needed time to help and be with his dad. I never believed that and i would see hickies on his neck and he would said hes friend did it while playing and just stupid excuses some of his friend would go to my same school and would tell he was having sex with other girls So i stopped talking to him and i had my own family issues as well.. My bbf was dating his bff so i would see him but i tried Avoiding him our relationship grew messier and messier he broke my heart and soul i wish to die He playing with my emotion for whole year And i was weak to leave my dad got sick and i moved here to texas.. Now im 20 about to turned 21 and i just saw his facebook hes been ina relationship with a girl for almost two years and now has a baby-girl... how do i deal with the fact that he moved on soo fast like i didnt meAnt anything On his life????
Appleness Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Get revenge, Live your life even better! Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they are happy or that they've forgotten their ex(es). You're still young. Take this time to better yourself and strive for your goals, whatever they may be. Do you want to make money and be independent so that you never have to wait for your man to get you a cute purse or jewelry because you can get it yourself? Go back to school. DO you want to be married, have kids and be a housewife? Learn (if you aren't already good at this) to cook, clean and manage finances. Work out and look good. Cultivate good people skills and be up to date with the news so that when you meet that next guy, you can have a good conversation where he'll think "wow, this is a cute and smart girl!" I could go on and on but someone else out there (whose advice I follow) has already written some great posts. He can be found here. In the mean time, chin up! You'll get through this! I guarantee that if you put in the work, you'll get results. I'm telling you this from experience. You're gonna look back and think "Wow, I can't believe I ever thought HE was a catch!" Start by changing the way that you think about yourself. You are great and awesome and spectacular. If he thinks you don't matter, his loss. Be proud of yourself, of your achievements and all the things that make you you. Everything else will work out in time
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