Canadadry84 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 I just want the pain to go away......I am so hurt. I don't know what writing on this board will do....but to briefly explain my breakup, I'll only talk about the end. He called me so many hurtful names, called be a b***h, h*e, ugly, pimpled faced....he admitted "I would never marry someone as ugly as you, are you crazy!" Then he says "you're crazy, you're skinny"...I don't want to write the rest bc it hurts too bad. All bc I asked him why was he getting pictures from 18 year old girls.....I'm so hurt you guys. I don't think I will ever get over this After he said that to me, I told him I would never talk to him again. I doubt he believes it bc I said that before..... I'm so miserable. He told me to go crawl under a rock and die....I wish I could
Giha Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 What an *******. You'll be better off without him...cut him out of your life. It'll do you only good. 3
crazy1234 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 its just really shocking how this guy can be such a prick.You'r lucky u got rid of this bastard.I mean you should be angry more than being hurt cause u chose such a person to be with,bt i know sometimes we end up loving the least deserved person.But are u even considering getting back ever if he comes back to you crawling?and for how long was ur relationship for?You can do sooo much better than this person.I kinda know how it feels cause even my ex told me stuffs to get rid of me like 'you'r my dog..i'll kick you and u'l come back'.Shocking right?i loved this guy for years but now i finally see the good in the goodbye even though it hurts everyday.I would rather be alone than be with such a person.He does not even deserve you'r hatred.So just let him go and never ever look back. 3
LostOne1 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 (edited) . He told me to go crawl under a rock and die.... You shouldn't be shedding tears for this douchebag? I mean if he wants you to go away.. do it. F him and move on now. Trust me you don't want to cry for a guy like him. Just know some guy out there would love you lots and NEVER say anything that rude to you even if he was mad at you. I know, because my ex said stuff like that to me too. I'd always still support her and be polite towards her. Well I learned I should've dropped her rather than her leaving me and me taking her ****. So drop this guy, forget his sorry ass and realize he isn't worth your time. Some guy will come along at some point in your life wether that is today, tmrw or in 10 years.. some guy will come by and treat you RIGHT. Trust me on that one! Edited June 4, 2013 by LostOne1 2
eleve82 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 It sounds like you caught him doing something that he feels embarrassed and guilty about and is now trying to transfer that guilt and anger to you - people do that a lot. It's revealing that he said this to you - the best thing you can do is to show him how much better you are - WITHOUT him! Work on yourself, pamper yourself and build your own self confidence. Sometimes bad things happen so that we can build ourselves up stronger! Keep your chin up! 2
CelticGibson Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 OP, do not ever let some worm-bag tell you that you are worthless. You are worth a lot more than what any other person says you are. He is a sick twisted individual that doesn't deserve another millisecond of your time. Walk away and know that someone else will make you feel the best you can be and will be only too glad to tell you every moment of every day. He has given you an out. Now take it with both hands and move on. Your future awaits....and not under a rock. Good luck. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 OP. You are so very far from worthless. Do not let some loser-punk, who will end up at a dead-end in life bring to this point. There is zero wrong with you. You are beautiful and amazing. He was just some worthless trash, caught cheating, and now throwing it back at you. Stay away from him. Absolute No Contact. Total deletion. It is game over for this loser. Remove him from any part of your world.....seek after someone better, cause, you will find that person. As of him? He'll be a loser. This makes me so sick. That dick needs his ass kicked, everyday he wakes up. Sorry excuse for a person. You can do much better.
Chi townD Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Actually, he did you a favor, he showed you his true colors. Hopefully, this helps you realize that this isn't the guy for you. He never loved you and he's sooo full of himself that he's positive that you're going to contact him again. Don't give him the ego boost or the satisfaction of one more second of your time. Time to start making positive changes in your life. Easiest one right now is go buy some new clothes and get a new hairstyle. SOMETHING PEOPLE ARE GOING TO NOTICE!!!! I want them to say to you, "Damn girl! I love the hair, it soooo cute!" Then I want you to get to a gym. Run your little ass off on the treadmill and push some weight. Join a Zumba Class or a Spin Class. If he said you were too skinny, then I take it you have a small frame. When you start working out for a few weeks or even a month, you're going to start to see changes more easily because of your small frame and guys are going to start seeing that sexy female six pack abs, which is hot! A LOT of guys are going to notice that! Start there! Make those positive changes! You have self worth. You're self esteem is in the toilet. You know what? PROVE HIM WRONG!!! 2
millie91 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 it makes me sad to see what you have been through, and I really can relate to your situation and the pain you are feeling. My ex said almost exactly the same kind of hurtful things to me not only during the relationship but also when he was ending our 2 and a half year relationship without any real reasons. I've been told by friends that when a guy makes you feel this worthless and disrespects you like that, it's because they want to make themselves feel superior to you or because they have this macho egotistical image to live up to in their own heads. I've had to deal with much worse and painful things being said by my ex after I went through very painful experiences in the relationship with him, and while he broke up with me only a few days ago, I can safely tell you that you are better off without him, no one has any right to disrespect you this way or to hurt your feelings, and guys like him are NOT worth the heartache or the pain, but take your time to grieve and recover from this, you will come out of this stronger, and I hope the same goes for me! Two of my friends told me today: what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I sure hope that in our cases thats the truth
Author Canadadry84 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 Thank you all for your kind comments....it means a lot especially when my self esteem is at an all time low. I thought he was my best friend...he took personal stories that affected my life and threw them back in my face. My mother left my father because he was a habitual cheater and was abusive....he said "your mother was weak that's why she left your father. She broke her promise to God to remain married bc she's weak!!".... I won't contact him......the problem seems to be making it this magical "60 days" without contact. I am afraid I may feel lonely like I currently do
KatZee Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Thank you all for your kind comments....it means a lot especially when my self esteem is at an all time low. I thought he was my best friend...he took personal stories that affected my life and threw them back in my face. My mother left my father because he was a habitual cheater and was abusive....he said "your mother was weak that's why she left your father. She broke her promise to God to remain married bc she's weak!!".... Oh man are you kidding me with what he said? He sounds like the biggest douchebag on the planet. Your mother was actually STRONG for leaving your father. Most women just sit around and let themselves be cheated on and abused and are too scared to make a change. Please follow in your mother's footsteps because she is a very wise woman. Let her be your guide and inspiration for leaving this piece of s.hit. She knows what you're going through because she's been there, and she's come out on the other side. Stronger, smarter, happier, and healthier. Don't listen to one word of what this guy has to say. He sounds disgusting and vile. No one with any ounce of compassion or goodness in their heart is capable of being so intentionally hurtful and cruel. He's a black soul, he'll suck everything out of you and leave you on the road dead. Block him so you don't have to endure his behavior anymore. People who act like him are truly sick in the head. It's NOT you at all. 2
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