Noma Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 So I work with me ex. We broke up 3mo ago. 6 weeks after the break up he started sleeping with someone else, and everyone found out about it pretty immediately. To make matters worse, we were still hanging out up to the week it started happening... So this last week I committed to staying at work with him, and wanting to work better with him. And have been putting more effort in. Feeling good about myself at work again, and starting to put my heart back in what I do. Last night and today he starts texting me more, about work. And then this morning he called. He has decided to get back on medication, and picked up new meds this morning. We had been talking about this for about a week now, and I was so happy he decided to do this hisself! Last time I think he felt that I forced him. Now he knows it is what is best for him . He has been texting me throughout the day, mostly work. I felt bad bothering him about work on his day off. Told him to enjoy his dinner and g'night. He texted back... Summarized... I didn't do that for dinner, I'm watching TV, and our cat is... FYI, I'm not seeing her anymore. WTF?? Just yesterday when I got done with work I decided to relax outside, and then saw she was there. Oddly enough, I didn't feel hurt anymore. I was just kind of irritated. I couldn't believe that the hurt wasn't there... Felt really good about it! And now this. I didn't reply back. I really don't care. I don't know who ended it. I still love him, and miss him. But I'm not sure if I could ever trust him not to do this to me again. I'm not even sure why he told me. So yup, his rebound lasted about 6 weeks. She is also going through a divorce. Whatever. I get it. Even when they first hooked up, it hurt really bad, but I was more upset about the fact that they were so public about it, her coming to our work etc. all the employees and regular customers knew, and how they have treated me has been different. It's called DISCRETION!!!! We are adults, in our 30's and you own a business, that everyone knows I've poured my heart into, and given my life up for. Me knowing was bad enough, but did everyone else have to know too? I'm not even sure how I feel about him telling me. Nothing right now, we'll see about tomorrow. I have the next few days off. I'm not sure at all why he told me. Just venting I guess...
bluegreen Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Rebounds always do. Now he is gonna come back crawling to you what's your answer gonna be ?
Author Noma Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 I wish I could just tell him to grow up! I'm not sure if he will come crawling back. I guess see what happens. And what he has to say for himself if he does try...
Author Noma Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 Amazing enough, I didn't reply back to that last text, and he hasn't sent another.
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