seahawker64 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Today I was really down again about the BU. I think after getting her email that I posted about a few days ago it kinda threw me back a little bit. Around 1:30 my time I needed to go to the local store and pick up some stuff. She lives in another town and there is one of these same stores where she lives closer than the one I go to. So I get the email saying she kinda wanted to see me again and I'm thinking about that today and lo and behold she's pulling out of the lot of the store in my town today. We were in the store at the same time. I was pulling out from a different direction and had to pass her because my light turned green first. I totally turned my head and so she couldn't see my face but my window was down and I know she saw me. It feels like something is coming and a meeting of the minds is going to place. I'm sticking with NC but I almost broke down and sent a card with a simple "I'm sorry for my part of things" and "I wish you the best" but I did not do it. I've been thinking about it but I really need some validation that I shouldn't do it. I have a hard time believing she would go there just on a chance we would run into each other. Stranger things have happened though.
BustedUpInside Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Does she live or have good friends or family in the same town as you? If the answer is yes, then I think you have to chalk up the near run-in to coincidence. As far as sending her a message, I don't think you should. If she wants to be back with you, then she needs to make a bigger effort than she has. While the message implies that she has been seriously thinking about you lately, it doesn't go beyond that and I would hate to see you make an effort on a hunch and then have her reject you all over again. Protect your heart, and be very cautious, but it does sound like there might be something there.
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