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Love, but not ''in love''. What does it mean?


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You do not fall out of love quickly.

 

Although I have heard that people fall "out of love" all the time in long relationships. LONG relationships, where there is ample time TO fall "out of love".

 

I am not an expert or a psychic lol and actually am navigating my own ex badly.

 

I would say that your ex was never IN love with you in the deepest sense of the word, nor did he have it in him to fall IN love with you. It sounds like he was infatuated with you or had a strong lust for you.

 

I can't see how a man could walk away so quick and fall out of love in a matter of a month or less.

 

Do not beat yourself up about it though, there are seriously MILLIONS of beautiful women who cannot just get ALL men to fall IN love with them!

 

Yeah I get what you're saying. It did seem like infatuation. My ex taught me one thing: actions speak louder than words. He loved to think that he was really deep, serious and pro-commitment and dedication. Talked the talk but couldn't walk the walk.

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