kiterider12 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 I have hung out with this girl 3 times and really started to like her. Shes my roomates sister (and hes fine with me being into her). After the 2nd time of hanging out i heard her tell her mom she thought i was very cute and stuff.....then this weekend we hung out on the boat with a few friends and for 3 days straight she flirted with me. Talked smiled laughted.....i would catch her staring at me then wed both just smile. She even said "boy why do you have to be so damn cute" and said i have very pretty eyes and even said her brother (my roomate) never suggests his friends for her and he has put in a good word fr me. I did not make a move and im ok with that. But now i find out after the 2nd hangout she made a comment she just wants to be my friend.......and i have no idea whats going on....at the lakehouse 3 of our friends asked me what the deal was with her bc she was totally flirting woth me and looked to be very into me... What should i do? Bc i have no idea and i dont want to ask her brother to find out for me ...
FebruaryAmor Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Act like you're not interested ... Or better yet flirt/talk to other girls and notice how quickly she remembers she likes u.
Author kiterider12 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 There is some distance involved so its hard to do all that. I guess idont get how she could act like shes into...but not really intrested
Suave Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 I guess idont get how she could act like shes into...but not really intrested She's testing you to see if you will chase her. Don't.
CC12 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 But now i find out after the 2nd hangout she made a comment she just wants to be my friend... How did you find this out? Did she tell you, or did a friend tell you? If this did not come directly from her mouth, then it's just gossip and you can disregard it.
Lani Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Maybe stop listening to what other people are telling you, and go with how you feel? This whole 'I heard this through her, and then this through him' will get you nowhere. If you think she's giving you signals, then ask her out.
Author kiterider12 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 It came from her brother....whose mom told him. Also i have texted her and its been a nig fustrating bc she hasnt furthered the convo. How do i ask her out if i have no idea when ill see her next.....and why would i not chase something i thiml i may want
Author kiterider12 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 I guess im asking how long do i wait....and how do i ask her out with her being 3 hts and dont wana lool desprate or crazy that id drive 3 hr just for a date
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