London Girl 8 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 (edited) Ok, so I met this guy the other night we totally hit it off but he did end up coming back to mine we didn't sleep together because it was that time of the month but we pretty much established this would happen the next time we saw eachother. I sent him a cheeky/ witty banter text and he did reply but this is where I need the advice. So he is 5 years yonger then me so I don't see it getting serious as I remember what it's like to be in your twenties but I wanted to ask him out but then I don't want to scare him off. I know this sounds silly I suppose something could develop and I know I am over thinking probably but I am new to this having been out of the dating seen for a while. Since we established we would be pretty much be sleeping together it seems like it's more for fun which I'm good with (as he is very good looking and the physical attraction seems to be there for both of us) but I just don't want to come across to strong so not sure if I should wait for him to ask me? Thanks in advance for your help as I really appreciate it! Edited June 3, 2013 by London Girl 8
mortensorchid Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Well, you have a situation here. If it's understood that the next time you will see each other that you are going to do IT, then decide if that's what you're going to do. And when you see him again, if you do, in fact, do IT, then ... You're probably not going to hear from him again. And I'll tell you why. You might not feel very good about yourself for jumping in so quick, and I mean both of you will feel this way not just one party. If you're doing to do IT, then you have to understand that once IT is over with, then you're left with not much else, which is why you wait to have sex with the other. Facts are facts here, hon, and be prepared for this. Of course, if you choose not to do IT with the hopes that this will develop into something else, get ready for him to be disappointed and never talk to you again as well. This is part of the growing up process, we all go through it. I can only hope that you aren't going to be hurt with this.
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