starr5 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I met a guy at a swing dance club I go to in town. I met him through another guy friend I know. I noticed immediately that he was looking at my dress and talked to me for about half hour before asking me to dance. After we danced to one song, my necklace got messed up; he patted me on the back after the song was over, and when he noticed my necklace, he fixed my necklace and put it back into place. I saw him again a few days later at another dance event, and we ended up talking for another half hour or so before dancing. He makes constant eye contact, and honestly I get nervous. I tried looking away for about a few seconds and I noticed he was still looking at me. We talk online on facebook some days, but I usually start the conversation. My friends think he likes me, but I am not sure. Why hasn't he asked me out to do anything yet? He did invite me to a swing dance event he puts on at his church, but that's a group event. I've only seen him in person twice. I will see him sometime this week though
drr6 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I must be an alien as everything here seems so obvious: He did ask you out. He asked you to his dance. That's his kind of date. If you prefer another type of date, then you are free to suggest if he is interested to do X, Y or Z.
Author starr5 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 I guess I never considered that "asking me out," because it was an invite that was sent to over two hundred people; he just added me to the invite list when he met me.
Appleness Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I think you should just ask. Guys are usually much better at telling it like it is then women. Or if you're shy or don't want to put yourself out there, just say "So give me an honest guy's opinion. What do guys think when they see me?" Depending on what he says, you'll have a a pretty good idea of where to go from there. Good luck! 1
drr6 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I guess I never considered that "asking me out," because it was an invite that was sent to over two hundred people; he just added me to the invite list when he met me. I see. Well, in that case... Give it a whirl and see what happens.
Author starr5 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 Yeah, it's starting to look like the answer is no.
Author starr5 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 So, I saw him at an dance event last night and the second he saw me, he walked over gave me a hug, smiling. He introduced me to all of his friends there. Danced with me three times. But when the last song came on, he went up to my friend and asked her. Another guy had asked her, but he was the DJ, so here I was watching two guys ask the same girl to dance. My interest ended up getting to dance with her, although she didn't seem to want to dance with either of them...she looked very reluctant. I know she's single, and honestly I'm pretty sure they're just good friends. But yeah, watching that made me feel sad. I'll see him again tonight though at that event he invited me to. At this point, I don't know what to think.
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