Phantom888 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 So last week I post about my 1st date with a wonderful woman who completely swept me off of my feet. I was literally thinking about her all week. It became obvious that we liked each other a lot, and it was the beginning of a really great relationship. So much in common....endless conversations. We kissed passionately on the 1st date, but did not have sex. We wanted to wait and get to know each other better. Last night was our 2nd date. I took her to the pier, which has a Bubba Gump restaurant. It was a festive fun place, with a romantic ocean view. The food was excellent, except we were so busy talking we let our main course get cold. But we shared a dessert and was happy. Then we walked down the pier, and she wanted to stop at a secluded place so she could "make out" with me. I was delighted by that suggestion. Then the somewhat unexpected.... she wanted me to take her home so we could have more privacy. I was hesitant, but I was so turned on.... so I said okay...but only to kiss some more. Got to her place....went straight to bedroom and started kissing again. She stopped and said she wants to have sex, but doesn't want me to think she's trashy or "easy". I told her I totally understand because I am not the type of man who sleeps around, yet I really want to have sex with her right now. I told her I have deep feelings for her, and if we are gonna have sex, we have to be exclusive because to me sex and exclusivity go together (I'm an old fashion dude). She agreed with me, and then we went on to have crazy passionate wild sex for 3 hours...almost non-stop. After sex, when we were calms, she expressed how much she liked me and how every part of me turns her on to some extent. I felt she was developing really deep feelings for me, and was holding back. I never hold back my feelings. I told her exactly how I felt, and I thought about it for days to make sure I was certain about my feelings. I told her I love her. Then she jumped and tried to cover my mouth. She said, "Oh no....don't say that...too soon....too soon!!!" I explained to her it's not because of the sex.... I loved her the moment I first saw her. It has never happened before....I never throw my feelings around. I feel this is a once in a lifetime occurrence. It hit me like a paddle *whack*, and I was completely smitten. I know there are many skeptics thinking this is lust and not love, or that this is just crazy feelings. But the fact of the matter is, I am not wired like most men......I am very strange to most people, and I don't follow dating rules. That's the way I truly felt, and I needed to tell her. She cried, and we embraced. She told me she was hurt so many times before, so she wanted to spend time to let the love develop before telling me. I told her to take her time to get to know me, and I never expected her to love me so quickly anyway. I'm not like the people who expect someone to say "I Love You" just because I said it first. No...I just wanted to express myself honestly. After that, we had sex for another half hour, and then I went home. This morning I got a text from her telling me that she has cancelled her Match account. We are officially exclusive after 2 weeks, and I am really happy. I know there will always be naysayers out there. At this point, I am 38 years old, and I know myself well enough to be certain about some things in life. I honestly think adults should be able to progress faster in a relationship as they get older because many unknowns have already been learned through experience. I welcome all comments.
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