grampacookie Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I have a really complicated story with my ex we were together for 6 months we loved each other very very much we had a very intense relationship (love wise) after we broke up we didn't speak for 2-3 months. After that she came back saying that no one could replace me without wanting to get back together. A few weeks passed and she told me that she missed me that she wanted me back. I was still very deeply in love with her agreed. We stayed together 1 week throughout that week I could feel that something was wrong that our relationship was not natural, I felt as if she forced herself. She broke up with me after that one week. She told me she wanted to stay friends, I told her that I didn't want to because I wanted to "forget her" first. So we stopped talking for another two weeks. I started somewhat to forget her during those two weeks but was still very much attached to her. She came back again after those two weeks saying that she could not live without me. Me being an idiot agreed again. We stayed together two weeks. I could she that she was very in love with me and that she was sorry to have left me before we had one of the best two weeks ever maybe even better then when we were together. After one week of being together I tried to have a sexual relation with her. (we use to have sex when we were together) and she told me that something was bothering her. She had come sort of blockage where she couldn't do anything with me. She left me saying that she was sorry but that didn't want to handicap me (this was in march) since then our relationship has been rather chaotic we had sex a couple of times we really act as a couple without being one but she only does that when no one else is around. I went crazy a couple of times saying that I wanted to "turn the page" and start over without talking to her for a few days and then ending up talking to her since I couldn't take it anymore, to be honest with you I did this about 4 times since the last time we broke up. I also gave her a few ultimatums saying its either me or nothing and I never want to see you again. No success. every time I talk to her about it she seems to change the topic of the conversation we're having. It's been about one week since I started talking to her again Because I don't really see myself not talking to her. I asked her one question. I told her that she could use from 1 day to 1 year to make up her mind I simply asked her whether she wanted to be "friends" "or together" she took about 4 days to answer and she said "friends". I respected her choice with a lot of confusion. it's been about one week now where I tried to be very "friend like" no hugs, no kisses, no physical contact. just a completely normal friend to friend relationship. We started again.. kissing, hugs all the things that lovers do. I mean we just can't help our self. I mean i clearly see that she loves me right now there no doubt about it. we're crazy about each other. When i asked her if the choice she made about being friends was honest she said yes. so asked her so you don't love me anymore and she just won't answer that question. I just can't seem to why she doesn't want to admit that she love me and wants to be with me again... ANY ADVICE IS GREAT ADVICE THANKS!!
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