mahon451 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Is it just me, or do the "ex blues" seem to be bad with everyone today (or at least, worse than normal)? I had a fine weekend, filled with gigs (the kind you play music at), bbq, beer, friends... and then I wake up this morning with the ex on my mind, and it's put me into what may likely be an all-day funk. So, in the spirit of mutual assistance, feel free to co-vent in this thread. Come at me, bros.
chinacat sunflower Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Couldn't agree more. You really hit the nail on the head. It was a beautiful weekend here in New England, enjoyed the weather with friends and family. Good vibes all around. Until today. It sucks. I wish I could "Eternal Sunshine from the Spotless Mind" him out of my brain. Here's to wishful thinking. Hope you feel better...... 2
McGriff Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Yep, join the club, although I don't feel as "down" today as I normally do. Don't get me wrong, I'm not floating in the clouds or anything (although that will come later when I'm watching Heat-Pacers game 7 tonight at my fav bar), but I know the feeling. The roller coaster ride that seemingly never stops!! 1
KatZee Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 OMG! I felt it today as well! Not necessarily "ex blues" but I actually woke up with a really heavy feeling in my gut, and some anxiety. I really had no idea why. I just felt really "off" and as if something was wrong. I just didn't feel right at all. The vibes floating around the world today are definitely no good, I'm actually going to smudge my apartment when I get home. Had the heebiejeebies today. 1
Author mahon451 Posted June 3, 2013 Author Posted June 3, 2013 Just did a gym session, so the funk is muted for the time being. But I've noticed a general malaise, not just here, but in my office, at the gym... everyone just seems a little low today. Also, for the first time in probably 3 months, I have no evening plans. As we all know, inactivity makes all the ex bulls**t worse... so I need some ideas (other than getting blasted-drunk) to occupy my time tonight... anyone have any?
BustedUpInside Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I definitely have felt it for the past couple of days. I am not sure how it works where you live, but I am in the age group where everyone seems to be getting serious (marriage and babies) and they all seem to be happening in the May-July time frame. It just reminds me that I have to start over and those things are farther out of reach than ever. 3
Author mahon451 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 Busted- I live in Cali, and I am also at the age where friends are getting married, having kids, etc... and I'm happy for them, but it's rough not being in that "club" sometimes. Like everyone else, I thought I'd be growing old with the ex, but obviously I was mistaken. Being back to square one only bothers me because I'm wondering if I'm going to burn through my 30s and 40s without having found another person that I want that with. 1
bluegreen Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 OMG! I felt it today as well! Not necessarily "ex blues" but I actually woke up with a really heavy feeling in my gut, and some anxiety. I really had no idea why. I just felt really "off" and as if something was wrong. I just didn't feel right at all. The vibes floating around the world today are definitely no good, I'm actually going to smudge my apartment when I get home. Had the heebiejeebies today. Count me in to ps: I love your signature its one thing that really made me
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