blackdevil235 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 i have a gf and i love to see more of her or just sexy, but what happens i see her in a tshirt then she go outside in a sleeveless shirt and other sexy clothes. at the swimming pool she even wear a seethrough shirt should she not keep her bra private? bikini ok but bra hmmm so i wonder is it normal if your gf looks more sexy outside then for you on webcam?
LittleTiger Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I wouldn't call it 'normal', no. I don't know how other people conduct their webcam time, but I definitely don't look sexier in my daily life than I do when we're chatting on Skype. Sometimes I make an effort by wearing clothes he likes to see me in (or out of ), sometimes he'll ask me to put on a little white vest top (his favourite) but, more often than not, I'm in bed wearing a baggy t-shirt or sitting on the couch wearing jeans and a big warm fleece (I'm in the UK ). If your girlfriend is dressing up sexily for other people, but not for you, then I do think you may have a problem. Have you tried talking to her about it?
justwhoiam Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 So, sleeveless shirts are sexy? I guess that depends on who's wearing them... I wouldn't think anything sleeveless is sexy. See-through to go to the swimming pool? I think it's quite common. It has to do with sundresses and the like on sale or that you can find around... I have several myself, and most of those clothes come from Northern Africa or Sri-Lanka & India. Is the cam time planned in advance? Or asked randomly? If it's the former, you can ask her to wear something you like... if it's the latter, I guess you just see what she's wearing at home. And I don't see anything wrong with wearing comfortable clothes at home. But I admit that I have outfits that I'd never wear if I have to step outside.
Author blackdevil235 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 all other filipinas wear normal tshirt at swimming pool, but my gf very light pink and seethrough. if i buy new shirts i show her 1st and about her bra just 3 weeks before i see her bra a little on webcam and i never see her wear any before, and since she hates a bikini i'm just thinking then why you show off your bra to others.
Author blackdevil235 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 i understand comfortable clothes at home, but if always look better even just a nice shirt even make up while she is already very beautyfull then i'm thinking why you can't just look good for me. i tried to ask her to wear a button shirt for me not even sexy, but she just look good in it well i never see it and sometimes she even fight me if i ask her to wear other clothes for me.
Author blackdevil235 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 sleeveless is not sexy, but i'm talking about all clothes. she says i have special clothes for outside and if she wears a ugly tshirt for me then why sleeveless and nice outside. i wear all my clothes at home i'm not making a difference for my gf.
justwhoiam Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Plan a date. An online date. And tell her she should wear whatever she'd be wearing if she was going out with you for a date. High heels, make up and all. She will decide what to wear and you'll be happy. 2
Author blackdevil235 Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 high heels + make up sounds like red light
pteromom Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Maybe she feels really comfy talking to you on webcam and so she is just wearing what she would wear around the house. This isn't an issue, IMO. If you turn it into one, you are going to scare her away. Nobody likes someone telling them what to wear. If you really want her to dress more sexy for you on the webcam, the best thing to do is compliment the clothes she wears outside. Instead of saying "Why would you wear a see-through shirt at the pool?!", which puts her on the defensive, say "I really liked that shirt you wore in that pic... maybe you can wear that to talk to me sometime " or something positive and complimentary. 2
justwhoiam Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 high heels + make up sounds like red light That's quite insulting. I hope you don't talk to her like that, otherwise I wouldn't be surprised she covers her body as much as she can in front of you. 1
Carenth Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 high heels + make up sounds like red light If this is an example of how you talk to her I think I understand why she gets in to fights with you. You seem quite demanding and very negative about the things she wears which isn't going to put her in a good mood or want to do things for you.
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