SarcasticAbby Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 LS, I've posted a few times with my dating dilemmas and here I am again. I've met a new guy online and after many dead end dates with guys I never really gave a chance or clicked with I finally found one that I've hit it off with. Whenever this happens somehow I find a way to find something wrong with him or chase him away but so far I'm only finding myself liking him more and more. We met about 6 weeks ago and we're already spending all day texting, spending nights at each others place, he's met my kids (which I almost never let guys meet my kids because I don't want them to get attached. My kids are almost 12 & 13 btw), we did a wknd away, and we've met some of the others friends and families. It seems to be moving fast I know. He's super nice to me. He makes me dinner, helps with my puppy, truly is just super sweet to me. But of course there's a problem. We met online and we both still have our profiles up. We haven't talked being exclusive and honestly I've been single so long as much as I know I want to be in a relationship it really freaks me out a little. Ok, alot! But I've gone online a few times to check my email and mostly to see if he's online and he is. I'm confused... If he's so into me why is he still online...everyday!!! I know this can be turned around on me as I've done the same thing but I'm just confused. Is he not as into me as much as I think? Is he waiting for something better? Maybe I'm more into him than he is into me. Or maybe I should be dating others too and not invest too much into this. Some insight would be great...
MidwestUSA Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 You admit you're going online to see if he's going online! Guess what? He's doing the same. You need to put an end to this, either by staying off the site, or by getting it out in the open. If you've had sex, then you have every right to ask if you're exclusive, at least sexually. Is it mutually agreed that you're both still dating others? Because that is exactly what it looks like you're doing when you check in online. A little communication goes a long way, good luck!
Graduate Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I know the thought might be daunting, but I think you really should bring up this conversation with HIM. You already introduced him to your kids, even though it has only been 6 weeks and you normally don't do that. You also spend nights together and are in constant contact. If you are not exclusive, you should really know NOW before you get even more attached or include him in your life even further.
Author SarcasticAbby Posted June 3, 2013 Author Posted June 3, 2013 Thanks guys...you're right! I don't know why in being such a chicken.
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