Lolita_Sky Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I just went through a breakup not even a week ago. He has the Grass is Greener syndrome and left me for another woman. I feel like he'll try and contact me in the future...months down the road. So I'm asking this question to get some insight on this selfish act. So why is that? They hurt you in the worst way imaginable and then several months down the road they have the audacity to think they have a chance at getting you back? After breaking your heart and then leaving you heart broken for months on end HAPPY while you're miserable. What's their logic in thinking when they do this? Because clearly its not logical thinking.
Antares Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Guy dumps you w GIGS = Bad behavior. Guy contacts you months later w breadcrumbs = Bad Behavior. Seems like the same guy, same behavior.. I think the ones that come back and string you along with breadcrumbs or other equally selfish acts, do so because they are ultimately selfish people. The ones you never hear from again - who never contact you, or offer breadcrumbs or look for validation - are probably much more healthy people. They probably respect the breakup, respect you, don't need to look for exes to boost their egos. They move on with their lives knowing that if they contact you it'll hurt or string you along.
robaday Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Thats the funny thing isnt it - theres some who think because they broke up with you they have power over you and youll bend over backwards for them, theyre the immature ones, the decent ones might try and rekindle a friendship, but wont lead you on, or disrespect you.....
Author Lolita_Sky Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Yeah, that's the crazy part about it. I think people that do this must have been hurt pretty bad in some way. But even still it doesn't allow them to do it. It's wrong.
Kay_29 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 you cant speak on actions that havent happend yet... you dont know if he'll contact you later down the road... work on yourself dont even stress the what if's ... it hurts but later down the road hopefully you'll be over him.. and on a path to finding someone who wont hurt you like that
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