CharlotteX Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 After reading about this I think this describes my break up to a T however our relationship was really really bad for a long time before the break up. we was together 3.5 yrs. Im 24 and hes 22 we got together on his 19th birthday (I was his first love) I fell pregnant very quickly, and he seemed fine with it and very happy. Our relationship has always been rocky due to some issues I have but also he has a very bad attitude. In the last 6 months of our relationship we moved in together as a family my partner was paying the rent and all the bills as I stay at home with our son I begun to feel like he resented me and several times he called me a ponce. I left him so many times in the build up because I felt like he didn't love me anymore and was just pushing me away. It was like he was exhausted of this relationship and working 6 days a week. I felt like he forced me to end things cos he didn't have the guts to do it. As soon as I left he was like that's it, he's joint the gym lost so much weight, out with his friends all time partying and drinking which he never done when we was together, booking lads holidays, even got back in contact with a girl mate he used to fancy before he met me, hes talking to her every day meeting up with her. Every one who knows us both is saying they cant believe the way he has acted. Its just don't seem like him. I have begged and pleaded for him back but hes not interested. I have now accepted that everything he has done points to that he no longer loves me and is happier with out me. I now am ready to accept it and move forward its been 3 months since we split, I just wondered if people think this sounds like G.I.G.S??
lissa90 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I think it sounds like he wasn't ready to grow up so soon. And by acting like an ass, being mean and calling you names you rightly ended things which left him a free agent to do all the things his friends doing with out the responsibility of a partner and baby. The guy sounds like a jerk.
Author CharlotteX Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 I really felt like the pressure of providing for us and our home just got to much for him. Hes been so horrible to me since we split and its so out of character for him.
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