orchids Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 (edited) This is something that's been driving me nuts for the past few weeks, and if anyone could help I'd be really thankful :') Introverted, highly sensitive boyfriend with very low self-esteem (he also has a history of cutting people out of his life without any real warning, just 'cos he's upset)4+ year relationshipArgued almost every other day for the past two months over ongoing inappropriate texts to girlsBoyfriend also feels very, very guilty for what he has doneHistory of silent treatment from him when he feels guilty/ashamed On 13 May, after yet another argument which ended with me crying my eyes out, he tried to comfort me, saying I'm too good for him, etc. He also told me, in tears, to wait for him to get back to me on 27 May. That's two weeks. His parole is supposed to end then. I called his place on 28 May and he refused to answer. His phone has been off and his email completely unchecked. It's now three weeks. We are supposed to move in together in August. Is he still trying to make up his mind or has he already silently broken up with me? How much space is enough space? What should I do now? Edited June 3, 2013 by orchids formatting
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