thewrongonee Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 just when you think you are getting over the long slump of sadness and misery nights like these just being me back to the starting point. I cant begin to describe the loneliness i feel at nights, all i can do is think of her and what I've lost. I've done everything, met new people, made friends starting going out more and more. In all honestly, I was starting to believe I was recovering but when I'm alone in my bed at night, i hate it. How does anyone get over this? Will it take time? because I'm starting to believe that might not be the case. I'ts been close to 4 months since our BU, and all the emotions just came back out of no where. I friendly advise will do, something to help me sleep tonight i hope.
Giha Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 There's no real expiration date on mourning periods. Just take it a day at a time. What are you doing on a daily basis to occupy yourself? Have you gone out with someone new at all since the BU?
SimonSerenade Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 That is one of the hardest times, I know how you feel, I used to go to bed with my iPod and listen to songs that reminded me of her, I think the way I got over it was, I got up early every morning and by early I'm talking maybe 5-6am and I was busy in the day, I treated myself, so for me, plenty of video games to fill my spare time indoors and when 8-9pm rolled around I was washed out, come 10pm I was out like a light l, I'd go to bed and I wouldn't think about anything, I would be fast asleep and in a way, I got my life on track like that, I'd go for a nice fresh walk early in the morning and feel happy, felt like a new life because I didn't fight the routine I was in of thinking about her all day and all night, I replaced it with something better. One thing I will suggest, don't do anything you and her did together, don't do anything you think she might be doing right now, don't do anything you know in your heart you can't handle, accept this situation and accept yourself, be kind to yourself and love yourself, getting over a break up isn't something you can get over so easily, certainly not an overnight job but it does happen and it happens naturally, the least you can do for yourself in the mean time is take it easy on yourself and treat yourself like a king. I remember changing myself entirely after a break up I had back in 2010, shaved all my hair off and changed my appearance completely and my personality and confidence followed, I lost my girlfriend and i remember at the time she borrowed 100 pound of me, after i transformed myself, sometimes on the way to work when I was alone in my car, I still thought about that 100 pounds didn't even give a rats ass about her anymore lol
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