Hurtfullyyours Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Okay I'm new to this site. I've been trying to make sense of this situation and I came across this site. Well here's my story. About a week ago my fiance broke up with me the day before our wedding. We had been fighting for weeks prior to the break up. I felt that something was off and everytime I tryed to talk to him about it he told me everything was fine. Well the night of the break up. We got along great! He went and bought my wedding ring, we had made love and he told me he loved me. He said it in the most reassuring way. It gave my the butterflies I've been missing. We have been together for our whole lives basically. I know that we love each other. Anyways that night we had our bachlor parties. A girl was involved in his and I got jealous. The night ended in a huge fight and he left. Calling me the morning to break up. It was honestly the most humlitating thing ever. The wedding was cancelled and I was a mess. I gave it a few days and then went and talked to him. I was really nice to him and I don't understand why. He found a roommate to take my place and helped me get my stuff packed and I moved out. He changed our lease, bills, and car insurance policy in days flat. I'm at the point where i know I'll be okay. I've never been without him for 13years off and on. But my question is. Why is he ignoring me? How could he have just replaced me in a week? Me and his mom were really close and even she won't talk to me? Why?
scorpio1978 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Can I be honest? It's not about the bachelor party. I think he ended it because he for whatever reason didn't want to marry you afterall or didn't want to get married, period. I know it hurts and I am really sorry, I am. But, I think he put some thought into this and perhaps even told his mother about it ahead of time. For him to replace you like that and change everything shows that he had this planned to a certain degree. His mother may have been close to you, but it's her son who her loyalty will lie with and she may not know what to say to you and also may not want to get involved. This is crushing and you sound like you are holding up remarkably well. I say process your feelings as you need to and move on as best you can.
Inviv_girl Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Im sorry to know this. It must be hard for you. Give it a little time then talk to him again in a calm, nice way. We cant replace someone we love very easy, roommate is not a replacement.. he probably crushed and messed up too prior the break up hell wedding cancellation is huge! So give sometimes for him, and yourself. If he went cold heart even after sometimes then I guess he has planned that long before and he just found the right moment to ended it. So move on and be thankful you're not marrying an a$$$clown
scorpio1978 Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 I hope you heal and don't have this weighing you down. I could never forgive a man who humiliated me like that.
bluegreen Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 B.... D I hope his God D... balls rot and fall off !!!
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