devo584 Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Alright well i've just been cheated on (again) and am at a loss of what to do, the fact that i took this girl back the first time she did this disgusts me! we've been together for almost 3 years now and i found out that she has recently started having sexual encounters over the phone and was planning to hookup for her birthday, which oddly enough is the exact time she did it before! anyway i already know what i have to do, how i need to move on and everything, but i'm just not sure where to start!! i haven't had sex in about 6 months (trust me i knew something was wrong between us) and i just figured we were in the middle of trying to bounce back, and it was actually getting good until a guy from her work came along. but with no sex for that long, it's obviously been bothering me, and i haven't felt loved in even longer, there's nothing i would love more than to have a relationship again, i LOVED having someone there anytime i needed them, but is this a good thing to do? friends of mine are telling me to hookup with someone, which of course does sound exciting and fun, but i also don't know if that would be a good idea! i've also been stuck in my house for the majority of my life, i've never been a popular person or someone who enjoyed partying all the time, even going to the gym alone or going for a walk feels so awkward for me. i've tried hanging out with friends of mine, but when i've basically been a turtle my whole life, i don't really have friends to hangout with! i'm not entirely socially awkward, when i meet someone i can talk and listen for hours on end, but getting there is so difficult! anyway short story made long, what do i do??? i'm stuck and i simply can't get out, should i try and continue to meet the one for me? i feel like i haven't been in a relationship for so long, so while i feel depressed and hurt, i also kinda feel pretty good.. i apologize for going back and forth but i just have no clue what the heck i'm doing!
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