Elias18 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Hi LS, Posted a great amount of posts last couple of weeks. My BU was 3 months ago, it was a short but very intense relationship. In this 3 months I saw her a couple of times, not planned, just ran into her ... those moments set me back a lot. But now I haven't seen her for more than 4 weeks and I don't text message her or snoop her FB account. Her birthday is thursday and I'm ****ing scared to see her in town where she definitely will be to party. But anyway, I'm so scared to see her any other time, I think it will set me back a lot. I think about horror scenarios, seeing her with someone else etc etc. I hope I'm not stupid to act desperate and stuff. Do you of LS have some tips for me when I accidentaly run in to her in the near future? I'm on 4 weeks of total NC and before that 6/7 weeks NC. The reason I broke NC was when I saw her in a local bar and we were talking. I'm doing great now, I don't think about her much and I'm reaching a sort of indifference. But then again: scared to see her and scared to mess up when I see her and can't avoid her. So dear people of LS, any tips to survive the moment when I see her again. NC is soooooo great and I want to heal completely before I ever see her again !
Author Elias18 Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 No pratical tips how to handle if you run into your ex girlfriend and can't avoid her? Man it's freaking me out, I think I will experience a big set back when I do.
LittleTiger Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Take a deep breath, smile and tell her she's looking well and that it's good to see her. Then make a hasty retreat and do whatever it is you do to de-stress under normal circumstances. Go to the gym, go out with your mates, visit family - whatever works. These things are always worse in our heads then they turn out to be in real life. You'll be fine.
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