Shaun-Dro Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Yea, that's right, all because of my 19 year old girlfriend. So what? It's none of their business who I date, but yet they all turn their backs on me when I took her to the outdoor barbeque yesterday evening. The only 2 people who were cool with it was my uncle and one of my cousins, who's also dating a teen girl, but he's 23, so no one really cared . When approached by one of my aunts about my girlfriend, I told her that she made the first move and most of the younger women that I've dated, they were the ones to make the first move. They're naturally more open to dating than their older counterparts, from my experience. I explained to her that before I got with my current sweetheart, I tried to go out with a 31 year old woman and she rejected me by saying all men want only one thing, so I chocked her up to another bitter dame. When I tried to engage a 29 year old in conversation a few months ago, I received the cold shoulder, which didn't surprise me since I spotted her in the area doing this to other men who drove fancy cars, something I don't even have . She's another jaded one, albeit snooty, perhaps. I can't really help it if young women between 18 and 24 always seem to show interest to me before even knowing my age. I drive a car and I dress mature, but this doesn't work on older broads. Obviously, the majority of them are too far up their own asses with crazy, unrealistic standards of who men should be, while the younger ones aren't as concerned, and base their attraction on more important matters, like approach, confidence, and other simple methods of interests. I like that. But with my family, all they see is "numbers" and none wanted to know of the reasons behind what I do. They just prejudged. Too bad, it won't stop me from continuing this lifestyle .
veggirl Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I'm curious Shaun, do you ever want to settle down/get married? I mean what happens when the 19 yr old girls are 29 and "bitter" as you say? Or are you banking on still snagging teens your whole life? Families are going to share their opinions...that's pretty much unavoidable. I'd just shrug and move onto another conversation. 1
NYC-BigKat Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Yea, that's right, all because of my 19 year old girlfriend. So what? It's none of their business who I date, but yet they all turn their backs on me when I took her to the outdoor barbeque yesterday evening. The only 2 people who were cool with it was my uncle and one of my cousins, who's also dating a teen girl, but he's 23, so no one really cared . When approached by one of my aunts about my girlfriend, I told her that she made the first move and most of the younger women that I've dated, they were the ones to make the first move. They're naturally more open to dating than their older counterparts, from my experience. I explained to her that before I got with my current sweetheart, I tried to go out with a 31 year old woman and she rejected me by saying all men want only one thing, so I chocked her up to another bitter dame. When I tried to engage a 29 year old in conversation a few months ago, I received the cold shoulder, which didn't surprise me since I spotted her in the area doing this to other men who drove fancy cars, something I don't even have . She's another jaded one, albeit snooty, perhaps. I can't really help it if young women between 18 and 24 always seem to show interest to me before even knowing my age. I drive a car and I dress mature, but this doesn't work on older broads. Obviously, the majority of them are too far up their own asses with crazy, unrealistic standards of who men should be, while the younger ones aren't as concerned, and base their attraction on more important matters, like approach, confidence, and other simple methods of interests. I like that. But with my family, all they see is "numbers" and none wanted to know of the reasons behind what I do. They just prejudged. Too bad, it won't stop me from continuing this lifestyle . They probably think you'r not serious about your dates 'cause of how so so many of them are younger than u. Maybe they know u dont wanna settle down ever .
Estate Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Yea, that's right, all because of my 19 year old girlfriend. So what? It's none of their business who I date, but yet they all turn their backs on me when I took her to the outdoor barbeque yesterday evening. The only 2 people who were cool with it was my uncle and one of my cousins, who's also dating a teen girl, but he's 23, so no one really cared . When approached by one of my aunts about my girlfriend, I told her that she made the first move and most of the younger women that I've dated, they were the ones to make the first move. They're naturally more open to dating than their older counterparts, from my experience. I explained to her that before I got with my current sweetheart, I tried to go out with a 31 year old woman and she rejected me by saying all men want only one thing, so I chocked her up to another bitter dame. When I tried to engage a 29 year old in conversation a few months ago, I received the cold shoulder, which didn't surprise me since I spotted her in the area doing this to other men who drove fancy cars, something I don't even have . She's another jaded one, albeit snooty, perhaps. I can't really help it if young women between 18 and 24 always seem to show interest to me before even knowing my age. I drive a car and I dress mature, but this doesn't work on older broads. Obviously, the majority of them are too far up their own asses with crazy, unrealistic standards of who men should be, while the younger ones aren't as concerned, and base their attraction on more important matters, like approach, confidence, and other simple methods of interests. I like that. But with my family, all they see is "numbers" and none wanted to know of the reasons behind what I do. They just prejudged. Too bad, it won't stop me from continuing this lifestyle . So you're dating this girl not because you seriously like her or want things to go somewhere with her but rather... "just beacuse she's there" and other girls are "snooty" and you basically dont want to be bothered making an effort to find a girl that suits you. Doesnt seem like a good reason to be with someone. I'd be concerned too. 1
Phoebe Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Your post reminded me of this quote from Tony Parsons's book 'Man and Boy'. Did a little bit of editing just for LS. For the first time in my life I could sort of understand why men of my age go out with younger women. I never really got it before. Women in their thirties, their bodies are still springy and you can talk to them. They are still young, but have seen something of life - probably quite a few of the same views that you have seen. Why would any man trade that kind of equal partnership for someone with a pierced naval whose idea of a hot date is some awful night-club and half a tab of something pretending to be Ecstasy? ... But now I got it. Now I could understand the attraction. Men of my age like younger women because the younger woman has less reasons to be bitter. The younger woman is less likely to have had her heart bashed around by broken homes, divorce lawyers and the sight of children who are missing a parent. The younger woman doesn't have all those disappointments that women - and men too, don't forget the men - in their thirties drag around with them like so much excess luggage. It was cruel but true. The younger woman is far less likely to have had her life f***ed up by some man. Men in their thirties and forties don't go out with a younger woman for her bouncy body and her pierced tongue. That's just propaganda. They go out with her so that they can be the one who f***s up her life. 1
Matmana Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I honestly don't think age is a major factor in dating someone. I think the person should be of legal consistent first of all. But I also believe that it depends how mature of a person you are dating with. The girl who gave you a cold shoulder was probably a woman who is very selfish and only concerned about fiscal things. The girl you are dating now is probably mature and wants to connect on a person level. As long as you two are happy and comfortable, then everyone should be content with your relationship.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 3, 2013 Author Posted June 3, 2013 I honestly don't think age is a major factor in dating someone. I think the person should be of legal consistent first of all. But I also believe that it depends how mature of a person you are dating with. The girl who gave you a cold shoulder was probably a woman who is very selfish and only concerned about fiscal things. The girl you are dating now is probably mature and wants to connect on a person level. As long as you two are happy and comfortable, then everyone should be content with your relationship. Absolutely! She actually told me today how she cant wait for my birthday so she can do something really nice for me. I wonder what that is but I'm surely excited about it because she's a sweetie, albeit a little clingy, but it's okay. At least she's affectionate and loves to follow my lead. And I do care about her? Certainly. Am I looking to settle down? No, why should I? I'm enjoying life just as it is so why rattle the cage?
shexy Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Oh, well, soon your 19 year old honey bunny will be old and bitter just like the rest of us
charlietheginger Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Jimmy hendrix said in his song if 6 were 9 I'm the one that's gonna have to die When it's time for me to die So let me live my life the way I want to.
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