Lolita_Sky Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Okay first I will start off by saying before my most recent ex I was single for six months. I was very happy single too. We met and I thought he was different. My ex before him called me this past March in with a pathetic attempt to try and get me back. I didn't of course because I know I'm way better off without him he did me so wrong. I did so much for him and he hurt me to the core. Well my boyfriend (at the time) broke up with me last Wednesday in such a cold heartless way. He broke up with me through text and when I tried to call/text him he completely ignored me. I went over to his house to discover he had a woman spend the night over to his place. I haven't begged for him back or anything like that. I did send him a few hate texts and messaged him on facebook insulting his character. I'm just hurt, he just used me and threw me away like a dirty rag. I mean he won't even acknowledge me. Its like I don't even exist now. I think that's what hurts the most. I never did anything to hurt him. I really tried to be a good girlfriend. I just would like this pain to go away.
ddlovexx Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I just went through pretty much the same thing, and trust me I know it sucks and hurts... but you have to believe that you're worth so much more than that. If he doesn't even have the decency to talk to you and be honest, and he acts like you don't exist (same situation for me), why even bother trying? He doesn't deserve your time or respect or anything at all for that matter. Guys don't make sense. I've been left for another girl twice... but what I do know is that the RIGHT guy will never ever hurt you and that's what you have to look forward to. It hasn't even been a month yet and I'm over this douche who did the same thing to me. I thought I was gonna marry that guy and he up and left for another girl without a word... actually he attacked me when I didn't even do anything. He's not worth it, and you can't blame yourself because he's selfish. It's not about you- it's about him. Delete the pictures, messages, his number. Unfriend him. Let go with class. I promise day by day it'll get easier. 1
Author Lolita_Sky Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 I just went through pretty much the same thing, and trust me I know it sucks and hurts... but you have to believe that you're worth so much more than that. If he doesn't even have the decency to talk to you and be honest, and he acts like you don't exist (same situation for me), why even bother trying? He doesn't deserve your time or respect or anything at all for that matter. Guys don't make sense. I've been left for another girl twice... but what I do know is that the RIGHT guy will never ever hurt you and that's what you have to look forward to. It hasn't even been a month yet and I'm over this douche who did the same thing to me. I thought I was gonna marry that guy and he up and left for another girl without a word... actually he attacked me when I didn't even do anything. He's not worth it, and you can't blame yourself because he's selfish. It's not about you- it's about him. Delete the pictures, messages, his number. Unfriend him. Let go with class. I promise day by day it'll get easier. Thank you this makes me feel a little better. I hope I get over him as soon as possible.
ddlovexx Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 You will, one day you'll just snap like I did. Once you realize you deserve better, you'll never look back. Just work on falling in love with yourself and everything else will work out.
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