KansasChica Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I've been dating this guy for 3.5 months. He kept sending me mixed messages so I asked him to definite the relationship and he said he thought of us as being exclusive. At the time that helped my anxiety, but now I feel like he just doesn't put in any effort. He rarely texts, rarely calls, doesn't show much affection. He runs hot and cold. I've heard about the rubberband theory that when a guy backs off to let him back off, but we're both in our early 30's and I don't want to play games. Should I ask him what's up or just tell him that it's time to move on and date others?
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