starlet86 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 and already I have failed. We work together and due to an incident at work I've had to text him. Does this count as breaking no contact?? When he replied he put a kiss at the end of the text and I haven't and will not reply. I just deleted it. For a full insight in to all this, you can read my other post, why is it so hard? I don't know if this guy is playing games with me or not, so I am trying the no contact route. Although it seems everything is preventing me from keeping it going.
Giha Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Keep contact to the very minimum. Working together is tricky business...reply 100% professionally and ONLY when there's no way around it. And obviously don't contact him yourself.
Author starlet86 Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 It was completely unavoidable. I just said exactly what I had to with regards to the situation at work and that was it. There was nothing else. He responded more personally. The whole situation is a mess to be honest. I posted today "why is it so hard?" if you can offer any advice at all, I would be really grateful. Working with him is crazy, especially when I catch him just staring at me or he pops up where I am. I have to walk past him to go outside for a cigarette and he just happens to need one a few moments later and he will always try and ask how I am!!!! I love him, I wish we could work, but any time I let him in a little I get confused and hurt.
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