Regpat Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 (edited) my bf broke up with me..well actually he said we need a brk Frm the relationship. But am thinking he is actually ending it... And its only 2 days before the most important exam of my life. How thoughtful is he. And I told him already how I am so worried about the exams now he's just made it worst. I would have prefer him to wait at least till after my exams. Can't concentrate , exam stress and emotional stress weighing me down. Please anyone help I need to know how to go through this bcus I reli do love him. I should be revising now not bn distracted with all this but I just can't. But am gonna try hard I need to pass. I reli do. He said his friends saw me with someone and he didn't even ask me about it b4 judging me. Where is trust in relationship these days. Smh Edited June 2, 2013 by Regpat
starlet86 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 My ex broke up with me whilst I was trying to grieve the death of my father. In all honesty with the way things had became and the way he was treating me it was really hard for me to stay in the relationship so he thought it was for the best I leave. This resulted in me being made homeless as we lived together. I had 3 days to find a new place to live. In amongst all this I had Uni work to do. I was reaching the end of my course and exams were mounting up, I then found out I was pregnant. He offered me no support and I decided to do something I fully regret for the sake of my own sanity. I didn't think I could cope with everything that was going on, but I promised my dad I would achieve something with my life and at 27 I need to do it soon. Then I done the only thing I could think of. I put all my hurt and anger to one side, turned my music up really loud and opened my study books. I wrote my final essay in 40 minutes, I completed all my online study in 2 hours and then I cried. I passed Uni. I passed my final exam and I made it. I am still dealing with everything else, but he had already taken everything else from me, he wasn't taking my future from me as well. This guy may come back, he may not. The one thing you don't want to do is be left with nothing. Show him you can achieve things without him. If he sees you moping and losing motivation then he is going to think he has won. You were born without him, which means you can live without him. Stay strong and focus on your future. 1
Author Regpat Posted June 3, 2013 Author Posted June 3, 2013 Thanks for ur advice starlet86. I just have to focus on my exams. It's not worth me risking dat over him;).
Author Regpat Posted June 3, 2013 Author Posted June 3, 2013 Am sorry too for Wat u went through. Dats horrible Wat ur ex did to u.
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