markhe Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Last Thursday night she starts texting late 11:30 p.m. tells me I ruined her life etc. Says she's destroyed blah blah. Everybody is judging her. She dumped me! Come home trip with boys changed door locks on me! Find out she'd been having long phone conversations with a "guy friend" for past month. I move out next day! So she asks if i can come over after she tells me shes destroyed. We've been broke up five weeks. So I say yes I can. I arrive she's half naked out of her mind been drinking. She hits me taking frustration out I let her can't hurt me! She cries, hugs me, says she loves me, misses me etc. We have sex nothing great I'm not feeling as attracted to her dealt with her crazy drunk behavior many times. A lot of our mutual friends and her best friend are pissed about what she did to me. So we lay bed kiss she cuddles me feels good I really miss her she has anxiety so I calm her down. She basically tells me she needed that night for closure she needed that last emotional physical bond. Really? You used me? Drug my heart through gutter again? We talked today and she pretty muched reinforced that said she needs work on her self. Who knows what the futire holds she says. I was doing so good for all this happened! Opened wound again! We agreed that we dont need to talk anymore. We still have couple loans together but dont need talk for now. All this is just pure crazy! I think shes crazy! Told her if we love each other why suffer? Lets do counseling get throuh this together not rush into anything. She said she needs space. So back to ground zero. I did go on date tonight had good time but still about her! Together for 4 1/2 years. So NC now and back to ground zero broken hearted all over again!
Coping Vortex Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Been through that. Its her look back before she starts committing to the new guy. I guess they do a final "test" before they move on. My ex did the same thing told me she wanted me back cried in my arms had passionate sex and then the next day she went back to where she was the day before the supposed reconciliation. Staying committed to her new BF. Not sure why women do that.
TaraMaiden Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Last Thursday night she starts texting late 11:30 p.m. tells me I ruined her life etc. Says she's destroyed blah blah.... So she asks if i can come over after she tells me shes destroyed. We've been broke up five weeks. So I say yes I can. Big mistake number 1.... I arrive she's half naked out of her mind been drinking.She hits me taking frustration out I let her can't hurt me! She cries, hugs me, says she loves me, misses me etc. We have sex nothing great I'm not feeling as attracted to her dealt with her crazy drunk behavior many times. . ....Number 2..... So we lay bed kiss she cuddles me feels good I really miss her she has anxiety so I calm her down. She basically tells me she needed that night for closure she needed that last emotional physical bond. Really? You used me? Drug my heart through gutter again? No, you let that happen. You should have known a lot better than to screw someone who's half-dressed, drunk and emotional. You did that because you wanted to. I question the level of your moral rectitude, and have no sympathy for you. If your heart is being 'dragged' through the gutter, again, it's you doing it. We talked today and she pretty muched reinforced that said she needs work on her self. Who knows what the futire holds she says. I was doing so good for all this happened! Opened wound again! Sorry. More fool you. No Contact is only as effective as the people who implement it.... So back to ground zero. I did go on date tonight had good time but still about her! Together for 4 1/2 years. So NC now and back to ground zero broken hearted all over again! Yeah. Breaking NC is one crappy learning curve, huh....?
thefooloftheyear Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Been through that. Its her look back before she starts committing to the new guy. I guess they do a final "test" before they move on. My ex did the same thing told me she wanted me back cried in my arms had passionate sex and then the next day she went back to where she was the day before the supposed reconciliation. Staying committed to her new BF. Not sure why women do that. Not sure why men let them... TFY 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Not sure why men let them... TFY Because we are: 1. Stupid 2. Weak
tinker683 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Because we are: 1. Stupid 2. Weak Srsly. Show us boobs and we become stupider than sh*t 1
TaraMaiden Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 (edited) Srsly. Show us boobs and we become stupider than sh*t "The Right One. When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life. In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability. When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement. When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition. When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned. I am older and wiser now, and am looking for a girl with big tits." Edited June 7, 2013 by TaraMaiden 5
thefooloftheyear Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Srsly. Show us boobs and we become stupider than sh*t Sorry.. I am as much of a fan of women/sex, but id sooner drag my nuts across a football field of broken glass before Id humiliate myself like that...No effin way.. TFY
tinker683 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Sorry.. I am as much of a fan of women/sex, but id sooner drag my nuts across a football field of broken glass before Id humiliate myself like that...No effin way.. TFY I was trying to be humorous, Buzz Killington My ex was a very well endowed lady herself (even if they were fake) and yeah...they're nice but not even close to what's really important.
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Sorry.. I am as much of a fan of women/sex, but id sooner drag my nuts across a football field of broken glass before Id humiliate myself like that...No effin way.. TFY You forgot to add: "and then sit in a tub of hot sauce..."
TaraMaiden Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 ..."With added lemon juice and salt"..... Yeah, TFY, just a bit of fun.... Lighten up dude.... In the end, it's all dicks and tits, otherwise it's planet Platonica..... 1
thefooloftheyear Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 ..."With added lemon juice and salt"..... Yeah, TFY, just a bit of fun.... Lighten up dude.... In the end, it's all dicks and tits, otherwise it's planet Platonica..... Yep..I guess I get mad at myself sometimes when I read some of this crap..People who pine for exes like they are the last ones on the planet with a vagina.. I was at that point for a short while...Now, I realize how downright dumb that is...Once you open your eyes you realize that yes, the grass CAN be greener on the other side..In fact it looks like the Garden of Paradise compared to what "left" you.... TFY 1
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