DrStrangelove Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Met a girl at a gas station, "come to find out her bf was a drug lord who got locked up 4 months ago"... went through the text/waiting game. First night was odd.. we got hammered at a casino, went to a movie, then back to her place. We made out.. that was the extent. I spent the night. She drove me home. Things don't escalate, sexually. I come up to her house a few times, help her move and what not. Watch a movie.. just hang out as friends. She is a runway model - so decent looking, nice body. Anyways, I think she got nervous about starting to talk to another guy. I don't think she is over her ex, maybe thinks they are still together. Anyways.. wrap it up. She sends me, "hey we should part ways. I had a lot of fun, hope you did too" I say yea, same. If you need advice or anything hit me up. (I helped her from getting scammed on clist for $600). After 2 days of no contact.. she text me.. "I would but I try not to take advice from *******s" The context I ignore, as she definitely is reaching out for more than just to say that. Attention whore? Wants sex? Thinking hindsight.. I did come off a little, needy. But, barely. Just over texted her funny pics. I think she was testing me to see how I would handle her rejection. IDK. I'm going to put her on ice n text her tomorrow. TL, DR: Girl brushed me off after 4 "dates" ... text me after 2 days of nc, (she said she wanted to part ways) Sends me a your an ******* text, although she is a sarcastic person. How should I reply.. waiting to reply. Not sure.. maybe attn whore.
Author DrStrangelove Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 anyone.. don't let this thread completely die off TY
PogoStick Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Why do you want to fk with a drug lord's chick who is trying to blow you off? Maybe I'm reading that "sarcasm" wrong...but seems like she means it. 1
strongnrelaxed Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I have to concur. Let it go. What is worrisome is that you overshared and then do not get the hint when she calls you a name. The question is, WHY would you want to see her again? She is a runway model ,but in your view she is "decent"? Dude, no offense, but you need to reflect on how you are filtering signals from women.
Author DrStrangelove Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 That's o so true. Ha i just want what every other guy is going after.. a few sessions with her, and im out. She says she isn't that girl.. which I agree - she doesn't seem like a slut. But, she is on the rebound/vulnerable - I can capitalize(sad, but true).
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 That's o so true. Ha i just want what every other guy is going after.. a few sessions with her, and im out. She says she isn't that girl.. which I agree - she doesn't seem like a slut. But, she is on the rebound/vulnerable - I can capitalize(sad, but true). I've dated girls like that before. Currently, I'm dating a sweet Asian girl with little sexual experience that I spend on the phone with anywhere from 3-6 hours per day talking about sweet nothings. Guess which experience was more fulfilling.
ascendotum Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 That's o so true. Ha i just want what every other guy is going after.. a few sessions with her, and im out. She says she isn't that girl.. which I agree - she doesn't seem like a slut. But, she is on the rebound/vulnerable - I can capitalize(sad, but true). Not bad going (model) for a random meet at the gas station. Maybe she is being sarcastic. Why be a bitch to you when you saved her $ and helped her move. If you served your purpose, she could have just it with the 'so long' txt. Is she really on the rebound or is she visiting him each week in the clink. If her bf was a decent supplier he's probably away for a fair while. After saying so long then sending that txt, I'd say see what you get back with a bit of a smartarse txt back. If she is supposed to be waiting for him, then I'd forget it. She could be watched.
Adele0908 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 That's o so true. Ha i just want what every other guy is going after.. a few sessions with her, and im out. She says she isn't that girl.. which I agree - she doesn't seem like a slut. But, she is on the rebound/vulnerable - I can capitalize(sad, but true). Maybe she sensed that you weren't genuine? I mean, look at what you said here. You come off as fake.
TheGuard13 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Drug lords don't usually get locked up. Low level dealers do, but that's not a "drug lord". I call shenanigans.
shexy Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 I'm confused..... I call shenanigans too. This sounds pretty made up.
Author DrStrangelove Posted June 4, 2013 Author Posted June 4, 2013 Ha. People seem to doubt my stories, time over time. Your right - low levels get caught. From what she know about the trade, I do not think she's making it up. Moving a 100 pounds over 3-4 months, not bad. That's besides the point. She texted me again to tell me I left some friviolous thing at her house. I asked to hang out - she didn't decline, but didn't want to drive as she is BROKE, and I didn't want to seem eager. She said maybe another time. I guess I'm not out yet IDK she told me she wasn't going to wait around for him, and she was going to live her life. However, I think she feels guilty for doing so...
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