sweetkiwi Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Yep, I need to have some anticipation and wondering...but even then there are certain techniques that turn me off..like sloppy dog type kiss its funny you say this because I had a first kiss that was too sloppy and his breath kinda smelled funny, not bad just...funny, and I ended up loving his kisses after we got closer. and those super sloppy kisses while having sex....mmmmm. he also gave the best oral ever with that sopping wet mouth. :bunny::bunny: 2
anne1707 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Approximately 18 years, 40 weeks, 5 days and 13.5 hours ago 3
sweetkiwi Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 the last first best kiss was with a gorgeous Italian Jewish man I'd been wanting for over 6 months. I remember everything about him in that moment. and how my nerve endings buzzed with the remembrance of his soft full lips parting slowly so I could sneak my tongue inside. damn, I need to call him.
2.50 a gallon Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 17 years, 7 months ago I had been happily playing the field for a decade and a half after my divorce. I was delighted with my single life and thought I had immunized myself from ever falling in love again. One kiss and I immediately realized how lonely I was. My single days were over. I was in love!
miss_jaclynrae Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 About 8 months or so now? It was life changing.
Keenly Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 About three years ago, my second girlfriend asked me to go to a party with her. I said yes. Let her at her friends house , there were me and seven girls going. We had 5 crammed into the back seat, with her practically sitting on top of me, and I was on the very right end against the door. As we drove I felt her staring right at me, and finally when we got to a red light I turned to ask why she was staring and she just planted one right on the lips. Instant adrenaline. Later that month I had the. Best kiss of my life inside the freezer at work with the same girl.
SmileFace Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Anything that happened while being drunk doesn't count, right? Never, I live a lack luster life. 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Its been a year and a half for me. And before that girl it was 2 years before that. Im super craving a super good first kiss lately. The kind that just instantaneously makes me short of breath. Hell, the last time I felt a super good first kiss, it drove me bonkers that we couldnt have sex right then and there. Yet I loved that feeling at the same time. Burning anticipation it was. Fire in my chest and in my mind. I slur words when a girl kisses me the right way. Why must it be so hard to find that sort of chemistry I probably have had what could be described as an intense kiss (at least from my point of view) but never a first one.
Author kaylan Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 6 years ago I have kissed so many men since then but it was always the varying degrees of meh, even those I thought I was really attracted to. This is thheeeeee worst. Ive had this happen. Its soooo confusing too. Because it like makes me torn. Im attracted to the mind and the body, but then the kiss throws everything off the rails and leaves me feeling like o.0 That being said, my ex and I had a really awkward few first kisses. But once we got a rhythm down and actually talked about it, things were fireworks. Our attraction to each other was able to overcome the weirdness. Plus I was surprised we were actually able to talk about it somewhat. Normally people wont talk about something like that, and assume it just wasnt meant to me. We liked each other to much for that though.
KungFuJoe Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 The first time I kissed my now wife. It was intense in every sense of the word. I'll try to paint the scene as well as I can. Had a crush on her since I first saw her 4 years prior, back in high school, when I was a senior and she was a soph. Used to dream about her being my girlfriend even though I didn't even knew her name and spoke to her a total of 3-4 times the whole time. I graduated and I still never forgot her all those years, even though I ended up getting a serious gf. 4 years go by, chance would have me bump into the girl again and, with a bunch of friends, we end up going to a club. I'm still with my gf (of 4 years) but my former crush is looking RIDICULOUSLY hot wearing a tiny, red, VERY short, spaghetti strapped red dress and red heels. We have a few drinks that night and end up on the dance floor together. One thing leads to another and we're dancing VERY close together...the whole time I'm very conscious of the fact that I have a gf and that I'm VERY close to crossing some kind of line but everything is just hazy to me. Then, before I know it, she gets up on her tippy toes (having already taken her shoes off because they were starting to hurt her) and starts kissing me...and I mean KISSING me. Emotion and alcohol get the better of me and I kiss her back and it was, by far, the best kiss I'd ever had at that point. But, I knew I was now "cheating" (something I had never ever done before even though I had many opportunities) and I did end the kiss abruptly. But combine all the emotions I had running through me at the time...longing for a girl I had a major crush on...lust for the absolutely gorgeous girl who wants me...and guilt for what I had given in to...and it was just the pure definition of "intense". I'll never forget that night.
Author kaylan Posted June 2, 2013 Author Posted June 2, 2013 Do you mean the chemistry and depth of feeling you had allowed that? Or the fact they were a good kisser with you? Or both? What if a girl is a bad kisser but you like her a lot, and vice versa? Its usually intense desire mixed with good chemistry in the kissing. Like we just physically click. Its possible for me to not be super into a girl, but for the kiss and physical chemistry to really make things stand of their head. And alternatively, as mentioned above, its possible for me to really like a girl, but have the kisses be lacking. But thats something that can be worked on. That said, if the physical chemistry or my feelings dont end up catching up with one another, things wont work. I need both in the longer run.
SoulJazzBlues Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 Last month , very unexpected too. Went out on a few very relaxed no pressures dates with this guy I have known for a year. I couldnt even figure out if we were going on dates or just spending time out as friends. Then on our fourth 'date', best kiss in a long time
todreaminblue Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 i have found first kisses arent so intense...more butterfly wing like...more sweet than heat...intensity comes later.....deb
Nikki Sahagin Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 My current bf. We had a spontaneous kiss not even on a date. Just randomly but i had book looking at him and wanting him for three weeks. Finding kisses like that are definitely rare. Ive only ever kissed two people who made me feel that way from a kiss. Thats where chemistry pheromones must come in. 1
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