kaylan Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Its been a year and a half for me. And before that girl it was 2 years before that. Im super craving a super good first kiss lately. The kind that just instantaneously makes me short of breath. Hell, the last time I felt a super good first kiss, it drove me bonkers that we couldnt have sex right then and there. Yet I loved that feeling at the same time. Burning anticipation it was. Fire in my chest and in my mind. I slur words when a girl kisses me the right way. Why must it be so hard to find that sort of chemistry 1
Phantom888 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 It's really tough to find someone with that kind of major sparks. I always kiss on the 1st date, and so far it has been 5 truly great kissers in my whole life! My ex-wife was the worst! Anyway, I kissed a woman last Monday, and I am hooked. It was perfect. We ended up kissing for over an hour. I am beyond happy. 2nd date tomorrow night. 4
apple OR orange Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 never (wants more letters so this bit is padding) 1
USMCHokie Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 A year and a half ago. I was intoxicated and my car had just been broken into at the hotel. The hotel offered me free mini-bar sized wine bottles in consolation. The wine was terrible; the kiss, much less terrible. 4
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 6 years ago I have kissed so many men since then but it was always the varying degrees of meh, even those I thought I was really attracted to. 1
ThaWholigan Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 It was towards the end of last year - was with the 2nd girl I slept with and I kissed her on the first date (I did a lot more later that day). She had such beautiful lips . I was tempted to date her seriously.....if she's available, I might... 1
carhill Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 On a more serious note, it was in January of 1999 on an otherwise freezing day in Odessa, Ukraine. Ironically, the lady in question was, as gleaned later from her broken English, somewhat embarrassed about her lips/kissing, when in reality both were spectacular. It was like time and life were suspended for awhile. She was an equally spectacular lover as well. Good memories of the one who got away. 3
sweetheart5381 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 The first kiss with my bf was just a month ago. It was incredible, so much desire for one another. Sparks turned to flames instantly and it was too much so we stopped (we are not teens, but it felt that way). We both wanted more than to just hit the sheets, as corny as that seems. In hindsight, stopping made the first time so good... and the 2nd and the 3rd.... I hadn't felt that way about a kiss in so long... perhaps forever. 1
ThomasD Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Whens the last time you had an truly intense first kiss? A couple months short of 40 years ago. We were both 22. First date; on the day we first saw each other after writing for over 3 months. (Sight unseen - no phone calls, no skype, no text messages, etc.) Yes, it was intense - affectionate - passionate - desirous. One year plus two weeks after that first kiss we kissed at the altar in our wedding service, and are still married (and kissing!). 9
FitChick Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 The best kisser I ever dated was when I was in college. Those kisses were better than any "real" sex I've had since. That guy was amazing. Major player who slept with all of my friends (as I found out later).
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I have noticed that I feel more intense first kisses if I have known someone for a while....when I just meet with someone via OLD and spend few hours with them, even if it's over 2-3 dates, I basically feel nothing. I could be kissing my own hand really. That's why I deleted my profiles. I need for attraction to build in a more natural setting. 5
USMCHokie Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I have noticed that I feel more intense first kisses if I have known someone for a while....when I just meet with someone via OLD and spend few hours with them, even if it's over 2-3 dates, I basically feel nothing. I could be kissing my own hand really. That's why I deleted my profiles. I need for attraction to build in a more natural setting. Perhaps it's the anticipation and wondering how he kisses that builds up...
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Perhaps it's the anticipation and wondering how he kisses that builds up... Yep, I need to have some anticipation and wondering...but even then there are certain techniques that turn me off..like sloppy dog type kiss
happykat Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 1983 .. ahhhh.. first love.. he was my good friend who I had a crush on for over a year and I didn't even know he was attracted to me.. and one night we were alone and BAM! FIREWORKS! AMAZING! rolling around on the floor for hours From Here the Eternity style, didn't even go all the way... sweet
Leigh 87 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Do you mean the chemistry and depth of feeling you had allowed that? Or the fact they were a good kisser with you? Or both? What if a girl is a bad kisser but you like her a lot, and vice versa?
Buttercup84 Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I met this guy on POF and we met up after talking on FB for a week. He was gorgeous and wore a suit...yum. We had drinks at a bar and kissed for ages, like teenagers Ha Ha. It was amazing! on the second date it was not too bad. I also had an amazing kiss with the best man, and I am the MOH. Ha! such a cliche but it was great. I never kissed many guys, and I was with someone for two years so it had been ages since I kissed a man. Sometimes the kisses that do not lead to anything are amazing. I can't wait to kiss someone again for the first time. Great feeling!
fiftyofsomethin Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 For lack of a better term, my last exes have been prudes and the most I got was cuddling and a slight peck on the cheek. So yeah. No. Never. Long explanation for a short answer.
lamaga Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 I remember the last first kiss that was really intense was about 5 weeks ago with this Swedish guy I shortly fell in love with but who didn't think we were gonna work And before that, my exboyfriend, first kiss was exactly a year ago, and that was the best first kiss I ever ever ever ever felt and I wish I could feel that again with someone.
Emilia Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 When dinosaurs walked the earth this is how I feel but more accurately, about 2 years ago. They don't come by that often but maybe that's a good thing. 1
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