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Is there any correct way to respond to "I'm attracted to you and want to kiss you"?

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MissLY Established Member

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I went on 2 dates with this guy. Then we didn't speak or see eachother for 2 months. Then he got back in touch and we went on a third date.

 

After that 3rd date, he texted me saying "Do you think I only take you out as a friend? I feel like you do. Haha"

 

I said "Well, it's hard for me to tell where you're coming from since we haven't spoken in 2 months."

 

Then he says "Well just know that I'm attracted to you and I've been wanting to kiss you for a while. Hope that helps."

 

How would you respond to that?

BluEyeL Established Member

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He came back bc. he wants sex. He is telling you that he wants to get physical and is asking if you're up for that. If you are, tell him : "oh, hoping for a kiss? All you need to do is ask ;)"

BluEyeL Established Member

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If you don't want to be physical now, tell him "I think you are attractive, but I'd like to take things slow". So the answer depends on what you want. What do you want???

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MissLY Established Member

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If you don't want to be physical now, tell him "I think you are attractive, but I'd like to take things slow". So the answer depends on what you want. What do you want???

 

I like him, but I'm not interested in JUST being physical with him. I'm looking for a BF not an F buddy. So your last response works best about finding him attractive but wanting to take things slow. Thanks!

BluEyeL Established Member

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Or maybe say "I think you are attractive and can't wait to kiss as we get to know each other". Maybe don't say "i want to go slow".

BluEyeL Established Member

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"get to know each other better"

Treasa Established Member

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....I was going to say start to unbutton your blouse, wink at him, and say, "JUST kiss me?"

 

But then, I'm ok with FWB.

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shexy Established Member

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It depends on how you feel - do you want him to kiss you?

USMCHokie Established Member

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So you don't talk for two months, and then you go on another date and he then tells you that he has been wanting to kiss you "for a while"...?

 

:confused:

 

:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

 

Wow. Please tell me if that ends up working on you...

 

 

 

But seriously though, a guy should never have to tell a girl he wants to kiss her. He just kisses her.

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TheGuard13 Established Member

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If there's mutual attraction, someone needs to make a move.

 

I knew a girl a couple years ago, who flat out said "Do you think we should kiss?"

mammasita Established Member

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You respond based on how you feel. Either "ok let's get it" OR "I feel the same but would like to get to know you better".

 

you have the power to lead this where you want it to go.....

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USMCHokie Established Member

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You respond based on how you feel. Either "ok let's get it" OR "I feel the same but would like to get to know you better".

 

you have the power to lead this where you want it to go.....

 

And this is exactly why guys must take the initiative and not ask to kiss her. He just kisses her.

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