Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Just wondering what ladies think of overweight guys? personally i love such guys, i find them sooooo sexy, i have dated 3 overweight guys -who are always a decade or more older than me-and absolutely adore them!!! I am young, thin, sexy and very much chased by fit young handsome guys but just reject them any overweight guys here? do you find it difficult to date? is it rare that you get a loving young sexy woman? any ladies here who would not date an overweight guy because they do not find them attractive?? thought this may be an interesting topic 2
CarrieT Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 My exH was 6'6" and 325 pounds - mostly of juggly meat; not remotely lean. We had a great relationship until he left me for another man... My fiance has a bit of pudge around the center and I adore him! 4
Author Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Author Posted June 1, 2013 My exH was 6'6" and 325 pounds - mostly of juggly meat; not remotely lean. We had a great relationship until he left me for another man... My fiance has a bit of pudge around the center and I adore him! oh sorry to hear he left for another guy, looks like you found someone anyway
Veronica2025 Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 A man doesn't have to have the perfect body for me to be attracted to him but he does have to take care of his health . Extra weight is different from being overweight. Of course, there are other factors.
dreamingoftigers Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Historically I have been super-attracted to older guys with extra weight as well. I think it's so funny when some of the bitter guys on here gang up and say that women only go for the "6'0 or taller, muscle-bound, super-handsome dude." That guy has never even hit my radar! Not even at my peak! I think most guys that I have been attracted to would have gone into shock if they knew how much LOL 2
Author Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Author Posted June 1, 2013 oh interesting!! i am glad other ladies love chubby guys too yay for chubby men with cheecks and chin!
DanielStone Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Oh if only there were more women out there like you! Haha! 2
Treasa Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I do prefer them on the bigger side, too, but if they can keep it going all night, it doesn't matter. 3
aussietigerwolf Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 my boyfriend is a little overweight but I am not particularly attracted to chubby guys though. he's just.. special. 2
Woohoo Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 6 foot. At one point I was 257 pounds in weight. Their was ways I could work it, but it was very much an uphill battle most of the time. For the rare lady that did find me attractive, you would meet quite a few who did not, and you knew exactly why. It is hard to not internalize this as reality in all situations. So few women found me desirable at this point that it wrecked my self-esteem for a while. Now that I'm a lean, mean 155 I get a LOT more attention and leeway. You can desire big guys as much as you want, being young and attractive you will definitely have your pick of them. 1
Maleficent Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 hmmm. I'm not attracted to overweight guys per say. I'm not into gym buffs either. Most of the guys I dated had a normal body - as in they were normally active. Though once I dated a guy through OLD who was overweight. I didn't mind but it didn't take long for me to be absolutely bored by the fact he was in no way shape or form active. So I'm not really turned off by the weight - more the lifestyle that comes along with it...
Treasa Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 6'2" or 6'3" and 250 pounds-275 pounds, and I'm knocking myself out to get him into bed with me. I had an ex who was 6'4" and 340, and he was so strong and so big. God, I loved it. Too bad his head was filled with a bag of rocks and his personality was meh. 2
BluEyeL Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I also prefer bigger and they can be overweight too, can have a bit of a belly. Not obese though, sorry, no can't do.
charlietheginger Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Im a guy and i have a weak spot for chubby girls.... I was once fat..... Lost 45lbs When i was fat i hung out with heavier girls because The thin superficial girls wanted nothing to do with me. Then i lost weight started attracting thing beautiful women I tried conversing with them , most wanted me to chase them Others were hot chicks that were not stable employment Or financially..... My opinion is fat people are nicer to be around, eazier to talk to Less drama, less headaches. While skinny hot girls are drama headaches usually measuring Their status by having guys all over them.... I've done recent modeling work been on the set with Very attractive model body women. Imo all had stuck Up personalites and acted as everyone should bow down In the grace of their presence... Im no brad pitt or top model guy. The work ive done has been clothing and for brochures print work. Ive had chances to have a skinny hot model girlfriend But after chatting with them i have no interest being Around a snobby B that eats lettuce and cucumber a day.... I go for a women with a great personality that's Nice to be around.... http://i41.tinypic.com/ir6bra.jpg This is a good friend of mine id rather sing Karaoke have a drink and good time with her then A bitchy snobby no personality 10 girl..... 2
Author Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Author Posted June 1, 2013 Im a guy and i have a weak spot for chubby girls.... I was once fat..... Lost 45lbs When i was fat i hung out with heavier girls because The thin superficial girls wanted nothing to do with me. Then i lost weight started attracting thing beautiful women I tried conversing with them , most wanted me to chase them Others were hot chicks that were not stable employment Or financially..... My opinion is fat people are nicer to be around, eazier to talk to Less drama, less headaches. While skinny hot girls are drama headaches usually measuring Their status by having guys all over them.... I've done recent modeling work been on the set with Very attractive model body women. Imo all had stuck Up personalites and acted as everyone should bow down In the grace of their presence... Im no brad pitt or top model guy. The work ive done has been clothing and for brochures print work. Ive had chances to have a skinny hot model girlfriend But after chatting with them i have no interest being Around a snobby B that eats lettuce and cucumber a day.... I go for a women with a great personality that's Nice to be around.... This is a good friend of mine id much rather sing Karaoke have a drink and good time with her then A bitchy snobby no personality 10 girl..... why would it make a difference if they were stable in employment? women who dont work should be entitled to date men,
charlietheginger Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 why would it make a difference if they were stable in employment? women who dont work should be entitled to date men, Imo no one is entitled to a free ride..... Does not matter how pretty your face is How nice your ass is. If you cant hold a job or run a business And prove your independence your not Gonna move in with me because I'm Not paying your bills,buying your clothes And eat my groceries... I work hard and don't need to support stay at home couch potatoe. someone else can do that But its not gonna be me A womens pretty face ain't gonna pay my bills 2
Author Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Author Posted June 1, 2013 Imo no one is entitled to a free ride..... Does not matter how pretty your face is How nice your ass is. If you cant hold a job or run a business And prove your independence your not Gonna move in with me because I'm Not paying your bills,buying your clothes And eat my groceries... I work hard and don't need to support stay at home couch potatoe. someone else can do that But its not gonna be me A womens pretty face ain't gonna pay my bills what about if you have a wife/gf and they need to stay at home to look after your children? then what
Author Aicha Posted June 1, 2013 Author Posted June 1, 2013 i do work, but if i had childrne id expect father to pay all of the bills etc. i have friends who dont work but date rich men who work very hard...
charlietheginger Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Well ofcoarse if we agree that one should stay home Raise a child.... Many stay at home moms still work, call center jobs from Home, babysit,internet jobs and so on... If a women is looking for a eazy out avoiding college Or working then finding a man that wants a stay at home Wife is a option... Some younger men 18 / 23 cling to older men say 28/33 Becuase older men have their own houses apartment Stable job, can buy them dinner... While many guys Their own age live with parents are in school or don't Make alot of money..... The young stud chasing them usually only has to offer A fancy car loud stereo and sex.... The older guy (even fat ones) offer dinner drinks food Place to stay , they are often eazy going eazy to talk to And happy.to have a pretty girl around. But it's not the young girls fualt she looks to older nice jolly stable men. Most guys her age are.doochebags
dreamingoftigers Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 Charlie, you're awesome! I wish more guys had the experience you did. I get a bit more why some guys say that "women just expect everything" etc. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 When I was in my third trimester, my husband and I did matching maternity shots.
charlietheginger Posted June 2, 2013 Posted June 2, 2013 i do work, but if i had childrne id expect father to pay all of the bills etc. i have friends who dont work but date rich men who work very hard... Rich men use these women for sex then dispose of them When they get bored... Dinner clothes food what's 500bucks on a saturday night when your rich... Unfortunately these rich men end up marring college Level educated women and raise children. The women that date these rich doctors lawyers ceos Are disposed of as they get older eventually as the age No more sugar daddies seek them usually they end Up with some average joe.... 1
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