Fugu Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I do agree that it would be wise to make an initial consultation with a legal expert to see what is involved in initiating the divorce process, in case it comes to that. I would not, however, serve papers until you've decided that you are ready to go forward with a divorce. I don't like the idea of bluffing. I think if it gets to that point, then it becomes a 'game' and it's obvious that egos are getting involved. I think you have to keep your ego in check here. You go to the divorce lawyer when nothing else works, and go with the intention of following through on it. Not before then.
Fugu Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Dear Justaboutenough, You, sir, are being a pussy. Women do not respect that. Women find that pathetic and unattractive. Be the prize. She should be worried she might lose you. You should project sincere indifference and ambivalence if you wish to hold on to her (personally, I would not). I know, I know, "but I can't! I love her so much,,,and my my children." Well sir...you are about to lose them both because of your lack of self respect. She had sex with him (though based on his texts he sounds like a slobbering pussy too.) So sorry to break all this to you. But you neeed to hear the truth. Man up. You are embarrassing us men. Are you married?
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