drog Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I can't get her out of my mind. I broke with her 3 years ago. We were together form '05-'07, then she broke up with me over something I don't get. We got back together in '10, of which I initiated the communication to try and win her back, after a few months, I broke up with her. It was me and her that cause the breakup, no cheating, just outside things getting inside and tearing us apart. Now three years after that I go on this 8 mo wooing of her, I dream about her all the time . What's a dream about holding my ex's hand in mine? Her hand was held gently inside mine. The open part of her hand was showing & the backside of her hand was gently clasped inside my hand .Another day recently, I dreamt of her in my dreams but it's almost like she symbolized pain to me, because I couldn't muster up the courage to talk to her, in fact I felt love and pain from love at the same time, she also didn't do any talking to me, but it's like we knew each other was present in the same scene and wanted to communicate but didn't. Not sure what all this means.
CorridorE Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 In regards to the title of your post, if she was really your true love, you two would have figured out a way to make it work when you were still together. For whatever reasons you both decided to end it at one point so there are things that have separated you two, and if there was no cheating or lying then it could simply be that you're not right for each other. Dreams come and go; try not to pay attention to them. If you two are meant to be, your paths will cross again when the timing is right. But if it didn't work out even on the second chance, then there has been something missing in the relationship that's kept it from being able to work. Give up and move on from all this, and you'll find happiness elsewhere. Promise. 1
BustedUpInside Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Ask her if she is interested in giving it another shot. If she says no, then it is time to give up. You guys have already tried twice, so I am going to say that if she is willing to try it again, that the third time should be the last time. Either it works or it doesn't. If not, then you should give up. In conclusion, if she won't give it another shot, then you should give up. If she does want to try again but it doesn't work out, then you should give up.
metal_chick Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 She's not your true love. You've spent an awful lot of time on this and it's going nowhere. Don't you think there could be someone better out there?
TaraMaiden Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 ..... Not sure what all this means. It means you may well need intense counselling and maybe even hypnotherapy. You've become so 'cross-wired' you've conditioned yourself to have her on the brain in all manner of ways. This needs professional 'unravelling'. Try to get professional help.
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