kameron Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 So I have been on no contact for 4 days now. Yea it feels like crap. But tomorrow is my birthday. If my ex does text me should I text her back. Or just continue with NC.
michaelbluth Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Do not answer if you get a text. It will only lead to sadness. 1
CorridorE Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Don't answer it... and don't expect to get one either. Waiting for it will ruin your birthday. Have a good time with friends/family/do something fun for yourself and try not to worry about it. And if you do get one, don't respond. 1
BustedUpInside Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 Don't wait for the text. It probably wont come. Sorry, but I wouldn't want you to wreck your birthday waiting for something and then when it doesn't you realized that you have wasted what could have been a really fun day. If she does happen to text, you should ignore it. Don't give her the satisfaction of having any influence in your life. It is YOUR birthday, which means that it belongs to you and you don't need her trying to insert herself into your day! Happy pre-Birthday! Hope you have a fun day tomorrow!
metal_chick Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 She's unlikely to text. If she does, wishing Happy Birthday is not a valid reason to break NC. The only valid reason to break NC is when the message says "I'm sorry, I made a mistake, I want to try again." Anything else is just breadcrumbs. NC feels like crap for a while, but you'll be glad you did it in the end. Stay the course...
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