innocent Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 My bf and I thought were fighting over why we do not talk on the phone and whose fault it is. All day I have been thinking about everything worrying and wondering, and he didn't pick up his phone or try to call me. But in realtiy he just now called me and talked like we normally do and said that he got mad at me because he had asked why I wasn't in my class yet. and I had blurted out that I do not talk to people in my class like I used to in high school, so he shouldn't ask that. Well I thought that he was impling that I was off talking with other people, especially guys because that is what he means sometimes, so I was frustrated with him thinking this occasionally and didn't think before I said it. Although I am not a flirt now, and do actually pay attention in classes Well earlier I tried to call him back after every one of my classes because he called me back after hanging up on me and said that it was f*#@ed up that i said that to him and hung up again, and didn't answer his phone, and called just a minute ago. That was at like 10:45am. why did he do that to me all day and how am I supposed to know that he didn't mean that when he normaly does? What was I supposed to think?
williams Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 I say he sounds really immature, if that is how he respects your time then you don't need to waste your time calling him.
Author innocent Posted October 5, 2004 Author Posted October 5, 2004 He says that he went with his best friend to go find GED classes to get his friend started, and I believe him but, Maybe I overreacted thinking that it was a big issue when it really wasn't. He just would have normally answered the phone. Sometimes he is busy, but other times he is not doing anything, I don't know. I was just overanalyizing the whole relationship all day long trying to figure out what was going on.
Natalie Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 I would think that he is incredibly immature and secondly, he does not trust you. Think this through. It's going to be hard being with a man like that.
Author innocent Posted October 14, 2004 Author Posted October 14, 2004 Well, He is not a sissy and I really do not mean to offend anyone by saying that, but it helps for me to also tell you that I have been with him for nearly 3 years and we live 170 miles apart. In a long distance relationship all you have is is talking on the phone. that is the only way he is a part of my life and jealosy and trust are hard issues to deal with in a LDR. I know now that part of it is my temper and I get frustrated being away from him and my friends who are all back home. While I am miserable stuck here in a small town where everyone knows everyone except for me. I don't really have a life here mostly because I don't know too many people and the people I have met are very fake and could care less about me, they just want to have someone to walk around with and gossip with. I really don't care for any of that bull---- I don't care to gossip about who was wearing what or who looked like an idiot or even making fun of people who are having trouble in classes. People are cruel and I don't care for friends like that. doesn't mean that I don't have fun. I just don't have anybody here at college, that I can relate to. I like to have fun and I always have fun with my boyfriend. But the part that always messes up our daily talks which we talk all day long is that we fight about little stuff. And my problem is that I always get confused when we are fighting and he always ends up telling his whole side forever while I try to tell mine, I have forgotten the whole point or am so sick of fighting over the stupidest things that I just don't care to argue anymore.
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