bitterruin Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I miss him so much. I've been considering sending him a happy birthday text but I really don't think I should. It will probably set me back, he'll probably think I don't even remember him, which is far from the truth cause I miss him more than ever. I think about him every day, and last night I had a dream that we were still in a relationship. I cried when I woke up and realized it'd only been a dream.
Hockeyguy19 Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I miss him so much. I've been considering sending him a happy birthday text but I really don't think I should. It will probably set me back, he'll probably think I don't even remember him, which is far from the truth cause I miss him more than ever. I think about him every day, and last night I had a dream that we were still in a relationship. I cried when I woke up and realized it'd only been a dream. Not worth it, I would suggest leaving it, no good will come of it like you said. Stay nc and protect your heart and sanity. 2
TheMink Posted June 1, 2013 Posted June 1, 2013 I miss him so much. I've been considering sending him a happy birthday text but I really don't think I should. It will probably set me back, he'll probably think I don't even remember him, which is far from the truth cause I miss him more than ever. I think about him every day, and last night I had a dream that we were still in a relationship. I cried when I woke up and realized it'd only been a dream. It was my ex girlfriends birthday this week, I was thinking about messaging her happy birthday. It was a really painful day, because our breakup was so fresh and all I could think about what I was planning on getting her and what we were planning on doing. But I didn't end up messaging her, and I'm glad I didn't. It would have only set me back, and if she replied it would have made me feel worse, and if she just ignored it, it would make me spiral backwards from the progress I made with NC. 1
scorpio1978 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I am going through the same thing. His birthday is coming up. I have read things about break-ups and what-not and how you should only initiate contact when you don't have that butterflies in the stomach feeling from them anymore and when you can honestly say you don't expect anything in return from the contact. In other words, unless you can send a message and move on, not looking at your phone and not expecting a response, then don't do it. It will be so hurtful to you if you hear nothing or if a "thank you" text back wouldn't be sufficient for you.
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