Why is this happening?

[AdrianaN]

Hello guys.. Oh I hope you'll read my story and will be as harsh to me as possible.

So I met this football player from another country, I live in Sweden, at a party and he asked for me and got my number from a friend ,and we started texting each other, then we met and well.. we slept together the second time, and the day after and the day after and later he came to visit me in my hometown and I noticed he send a picture of me to his friend so asked him if he liked me and he said, I quote, "yes of course, or else I wouldn't be here"... I had this plan that I wasn't going too fall for this guy because well he's moving back and all and usually I get cold feets after getting what I want but this guyy.. omg I wanted him more and more. And so it goes by and he doesnt text or anything so when I call him he says that he thought we were seeing eachother casually.. So I said ok fine.

Then when I see him one weekend and I thought we were going home together, he starts to yell at me all of the sudden and earlier that night I met some of his team mates and their like oh so youre Adriana.. you're X's girl? Oh we promise he likes you so much. I was like what? I dont understand, and then later he's just so harsh at me , like he doesnt want to be with me that night, and just so hurtful. I must be honest, I think I took it so hard because Im so used to getting what I want, I get alot of attetion and Im so sorry I really don't mean to sound rude but I do want to be honest, and here comes this guy and is like that. And later he's saying that Im such a drama queen, and that I acted like we were in a relationship.. I don't know what I have done because I didn't even text the guy? or acted as someone in a relationship and I even told him that Im seeing other people so it's ok. But of course I liked him... oh I wanted him so so so bad. It just breaks my heart so much. Why am I so hung up on this guy? He is just mean and really hurtful and disrespectful?! shouldn't it be easy to get over? I don't know what I've done wrong. Please do share youre thoughts.