Lovels Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 Yesterday I broke NC by texting my ex that I need to talk to her. I thought that talking to her will give me closure. She text me back saying she will call me later on. It didn't happen. I text her this morning as to why she didn't call and she gave me a lame excuse. When we were together, the excuse would not have stopped her from calling. I guess it makes the break up all too real for me to know I'm no longer an important person in her life. I feel horrible.
CelticGibson Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 Yes it's painful when reality hits you straight between the eyes. This is why we constantly tell people to go No Contact. Sorry you are feeling this way but look at it this way: You know the truth now. Back to No Contact and stick with it...
BustedUpInside Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 I am so sorry that you are hurting. Accepting that a relationship is truly over is very difficult. You can probably tell how bad it is after reading some of the other posts on this site. No Contact really is the best way to get over the hurt. Every time you make contact, regardless of what the ex says, it will never be enough because it will never be what you really want to hear. You can do it! Stay strong and just keep away from any temptation to initiate another conversation. I promise that you will start to feel better the longer you stay away.
metal_chick Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 Sometimes you've got to break it in order to see how important it is to maintain it. That's ok. Closure is a bit of a mythical beast that we build into something it isn't. It's not something anyone offers us, we do it ourselves. The good news is, NC can be started again at any time. Now you know what lies ahead if you break it, so use that to motivate to sticking it out. :-) 1
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